Thursday, April 12, 2018

Sex Party Review: IncubusNYC

Wednesday, March 28, 2018 was the 2nd party for IncubusNYC.
I actually went to the 1st one, but I wanted more experience before giving a critique. For the 1st one gave me some concerns. Not because of the party's premise. Instead, it was more so as to whether or not NYC was ready for such a party, since NYC has been losing its sexual edge over the past few years.

IncubusNYC is a party that is inviting of many kinks such as cosplay, pup play, and forms of BDSM. My aforementioned concern was how no one was partaking of that great kink option. I had my Maleficent horns in my bag just in case I saw anyone doing some kind of cosplay. Unfortunately, even with a decent number of guys there, no one was doing any such thing. So I left the horns in my bag. Leaving the only level of kink that I displayed being me wearing my Bull cockring by Oxballs.

In spite of this let down by the crowd, I did have some fun. Such as the hungry little Latino who craved my cock a number of times. Getting my dick in his ass, and the soft horns of that Bull cockring poking his ass cheeks with each of my thrusts. Also, the white guy who later on wanted me to fuck him while he was 69ing the Latino.

I topped off my night with a tall, gorgeous guy in a baseball cap and jockstrap who saw me checking out his bubble butt. He offered it to me by assuming the position to entice me, both the head above my shoulders and the head below my waist decided that saying "No" was not an option.

This past week, I attended their 2nd party. The crowd was mostly white and light Latino. I was for a good while the only Black guy there, and there was maybe one Asian. This bunch didn't seem to know each other, but they stuck to that color and ethnic combo scheme of playing only with whites and light Latinos. I was about to consider the night a bust and leave when I saw a number of guys preparing to leave. Thinking to myself, "Good riddance!"

I rethought about leaving in hopes of a new wave of guys coming in. It turns out, that was a good idea.

This next wave seemed to be more into displaying the diversity in the kink that this party was marketed to allow. Such as the couple who was actually there in the 1st wave of guys who later brought out their gear to do some flogging.

Before this however, en route to the restroom, I saw these 3 young guys getting undressed. I looked at the 2 shorter guys, and thought, "Nice asses!" I got a little glimpse of their faces, and thought they were cute. However, a chance to really look at their faces never happened. Because when I came out of the restroom,...those 2 of the 3 were wearing puppy hoods. One blue. One red.

I have never really seen pup play before. I've seen some of what it entails (no pun intended) in regards to giving commands, but not when it comes to any form of sex.

On the upper level, I was standing where one would stand if they made an immediate left after coming up the stairs. This is where a couple of yards away, I got a quick look at the 2 pups fucking. One was fucking the other from behind. Afterwards, as they walked away to go back downstairs, the one who was bottoming ran his hand across my stomach. I reached back to graze and feel his smooth thigh, even though I wanted to feel more. I resisted because unless both guys make such a move on me, or one touches while the other gives a come-hither look, I feel like I'm intruding. And at that time it was evident that only one of them might have been interested in playing with me. However, a little while later, that changed.

Walking around, I saw the 2 young pups again. This time, they were sucking each other off. I was wondering how was that possible with their hoods on. Because I had never seen puppy hoods that before, so I was unaware if there was anyno access to the mouth. With that being the case, I was also wondering how they were kissing.

During a break from their sucking, an older white male went over to them to start sucking on them. No hesitation whatsoever concerning himself with if he might be intruding or not. I learned firsthand that he had little regard in pacing himself to see if his intended prey wanted to actually be his prey. Lucky for him, the pups did allow him to come over to him. However, that was also the point when they started looking at me more.

I thought the pups might have been checking me out while they were going down on each other. but I was unsure. What made me unsure were the dim lights, the shadows over their eyes from their hoods, and no other body language. It wasn't until the white guy went down on them, and I went in for a closer look that there was no mistaking of their interest in me.

This time, it was the one who was topping in their fuck session earlier who looked at me. He moved his right hand a little bit away from his body as I stroked my cock. As I stepped a little closer, he let me reach down for his cock. I then went to my knees, and started sucking him off. He got rock hard in my mouth. He barked out a few "Woof"s in his pleasure of my cocksucking skills. He also started to reach behind me to feel my ass, and to of all things, finger me, which I usually hate. Well obviously, this time that was not the case. For not only did I let him finger me, but I also made my hole give his finger a little squeeze to show what kind of massage his (or his boyfriend's) dick would get if either of them used it to replace that finger.

At some point, he stopped to kiss me. I thought that was impossible with that hood. I braced myself for whatever he was going to do to try simulating a kiss. Next thing I knew, his lips and mine were connected. For his hood was not like the one single puppy hood I've seen up close. It had a space for the mouth to be out.

At another point, he stopped and passed me over to his boyfriend so he would know why he was making so many doggy sounds in pleasure. The boyfriend soon found out as well as I was then sucking on him.

Soon after, I found myself back with the one I was originally sucking on. Only this time, he decided to return the favor by sucking on me. He sucked on me a good long time. Good enough to not lose my hard-on. Nor did I get bored. He also spanked my ass with the spanks getting increasingly harder. And me getting increasingly hornier knowing that part of the draw for him was the softness of my bubbly ass against the palm of his hand.

Some degree to my chagrin, neither of those pups put their dick in my ass. I say some degree because even though we didn't fuck, I left quite satisfied without shooting a bit of jizz. That pup's blowjob however sure did make my dickhead wet with pre-cum. So yes, I left with a smile on my face.

My 2 visits to IncubusNYC thus far have made it progress from being another regular sex party on its 1st night, to another regular sex party during the beginning of its 2nd night, then morphing into the kink-appreciative party it was intended to be during the other half of that 2nd night. Such progress of action shows promise in the parties success. So I do hope that as IncubusNYC progresses to the point that more gay New Yorkers partake of what the party was meant to allow, and do so at an earlier part of the night. Even though it does happen on Wednesdays, which is a crap-shoot night in regards to success for most gay parties in the city.
You would think that would be a guarantee night, because after all, Wednesday is Hump Day. So if you find yourself wanting to make Wednesday live up to its nickname during on the 3rd and 4th Wednesday of the month, and you're open-minded to be in the midst of various forms of kink, here's one idea of where you can go. For the premise of the party is great. So it's up to us kinky New Yorkers and our kinky visitors to show how much that premise works for us.


  1. Great review . Thank you . I’m bi as well and have been wanting to go to a sex party at paddles , but haven’t made one yet. Would love to see you at one though

  2. Thanks for this great run down of what’s happening for those of us into BDSM. It feels like every public space open for some real play has been closed and the limited events there are always are plagued with the really pushy old guys who have never seen the inside of the gym in their life. Old guys (I’m talking about guys who look like they are over 70 who are always totally nude and always rudely insert themselves the minute you start a scene with a boy and don’t take no for an answer.

    I wish there was an event space with strict rules where I could go and do a scene with people watching who don’t ruin the moment by just reaching in and grabbing what they want. I honestly don’t mind if some 80 year old guy is watching it’s just at that age nude without maintenance is a mood killer. Really that isn’t the real issue. As a Dom I can not allow a sub to totally submit if I can’t control what happens to him. So without some strict rules even the most basic scenes are a no go.

    It venues are going to let everyone in then they need to create taped off scene areas and rules which require the Dom to invite anyone to their scene. Without this system it’s not possible to “get kinky.”
    I hope this makes sense. As a Dom I gave up on the events as they don’t have spaces or rules where I can do a scene and control what happens to the person submitting to me. No Dom will ever do anything with a sub when they can’t control what happens to the sub once he is restrained. So without strict invite only policy to scenes and scene spaces you won’t ever find anything beyond a dress up sex party. Kink is all power dynamic based. Without the Dom being able to control what happens to his sub nothing can happen. So a promoter needs to. Create a. Party with strict invite only into a scene and tape off some play spaces around a few of the big pieces of equipment. Once you create rules and a Dom can take control of a sub without grabby hands you will find the real deal starts popping up eveywhere. Without these rules it can’t be done and events are just dress up grabby sex parties. All it takes is basic rules and proctors to enforce them during the event. With that in place you will find what you are looking for. Trust me. Nobody is doing it these in NY anymore. Dallas has a good invite only party. They are common place in Berlin and sometimes in London. Without these rules that allow a Dom to control his sub it’s just a dress up Sex party. Let me know if anyone starts these again. These parties are epic!!!! Hope this helps. MASTER JAMES


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