LeNair Xavier, unashamed of his porn past as "Tré Xavier", continues revealing his observations where he sees beneath the surface of all we've been told about sex, life & love.
Sunday, November 27, 2016
Tuesday, November 22, 2016
Go-Go Diversity at Playpen
Would you believe that the last time I did a party review was 3 1/2 years ago?
Why so long?
It's because after that review, I decided that unless a party offered the beauty of ethnic and color diversity in their go-go boy staffing that display what makes the skin rainbow in NewYork City so beautiful, then such a review would be a waste of my time. For there would be nothing to commend.
You see, you can claim to be "all-welcoming" and "find all colors beautiful" all you want, but if it's not shown in your go-go boys, then all you're speaking are words. And the age-old saying "Action speaks louder than words" has proven itself to be true too many times over for anyone to try disproving it.
Well now, after all this time, I have a party to give such praises to. That party would be the weekly underwear party, Playpen Mondays at The Cock.
Every visible body in a bar/club's staff should be reflective of the all of the various skin tones and ethnicities that make up that city. Thereby, making it beautiful. And thereby, telling patrons of all colors and ethnicities that all of them are beautiful. If any color/ethnicity is purposely dismissed from the canvas, then whoever is doing the hiring for that bar/club party is doing the job wrong. Unfortunately, that's the case of many parties in NYC gay nightlife. Hence why I venture to so few parties, and tips few go-go boys when I do go out.
I'm sick and fuckin' tired of NYC gay party promoters shoving only vanilla and caramel down my throat! Especially since too many of them act entitled, and either "hook" up with patrons on the job, instead of doing the actual job, which is to be rhythmic eye candy. Well, there's milk and dark chocolate out there to feast my eyes on as well. And when I go out, I want my eyes, mouth, and the rest of my body craving to taste the skin rainbow.
It's a sensation a bar/club's party (especially in NYC) should inspire in others as well by their go-go boy roster. And Playpen Mondays at The Cock is doing that for me now.
I say this because most NYC go-go boys are either white or light Latino. Occasionally, light Middle Easterners and Asians might get a shot at go-go dancing, but even those 2 are still too much a rarity. This leaves every other color and ethnicity in the skin rainbow totally ignored. Which primarily means Black males. Proof of that fact can easily be seen by a look at the Glam Award nominations for Best Burlesque Performer and Best Go-Go Boy.
Most NYC parties, if they have a black go-go boy, he's usually a tall, bald, gym-bod ---the racist white-ordained standard of a beautiful black male. It's a standard that has been way overdone by gay porn and nightlife. Well, just like all of these parties do a rotation of variety with their white dancers, they need to do the same with their non-white go-go boys. For such a lack of diversity incites fetishizing of a color or ethnicity. And NYC should be the last place anyone experiences that.
That's why I'm glad to say that Playpen Mondays at The Cock does do a rotation with that variety. There I have seen black go-go boys who are simply fit as well as gym-bodied, with hair and without, and closer to my 5'6" height as well as tall.
Due to the ethnic diversity that makes up New York City's population, a gay party promoter in NYC can't be so blind to the need to represent all colors of the skin rainbow. Nor can he be so self-involved in making money that he ignores the reality of racism that exist in this city, and our community overall thanks to gay media. So I commend the host, Kareem McJagger. Whether or not it was his intention, his actions show that he (unlike most in this city) is not the type of promoter who hires go-go boys based on how much he makes in tips.
For the racism of mostly white crowds will tip the white go-go boy most. And this past election has proven that we are not as beyond racial bias (sexually or otherwise) as many white-owned media outlets will try deluding us to believe. But a newly out black male won't see himself as a sexual contender unless the things in our community that inspire us to see ourselves as such dismiss those of particular shades, ethnicities, or even sizes. And our community is marginalized enough. So we have to stop doing this to each other. And that includes gay nightlife doing their part, which is where many gays' confidence in being out and proud begins. With that said, gay nightlife has a responsibility to praise all colors in more ways that just taking their money. That can't be said of many places I've ventured to in my homestead of New York City, but it can be said of Playpen Mondays.
As you can see, if you want to get my attention for your party, and want to spread the word, then have a go-go boy roster whose rotation makes one word easily roll off my tongue....
It is for this reason that I'm liking the diversity of go-go dancers at Playpen Mondays at The Cock. So if go-go boys are a draw as to where you hang out, I recommend going there so you can see what a go-go boy line-up in New York City should look like.
And it also doesn't hurt that when you strip down to your skivvies, you get a free shot. ;-)
Why so long?
It's because after that review, I decided that unless a party offered the beauty of ethnic and color diversity in their go-go boy staffing that display what makes the skin rainbow in NewYork City so beautiful, then such a review would be a waste of my time. For there would be nothing to commend.
You see, you can claim to be "all-welcoming" and "find all colors beautiful" all you want, but if it's not shown in your go-go boys, then all you're speaking are words. And the age-old saying "Action speaks louder than words" has proven itself to be true too many times over for anyone to try disproving it.
Well now, after all this time, I have a party to give such praises to. That party would be the weekly underwear party, Playpen Mondays at The Cock.
Every visible body in a bar/club's staff should be reflective of the all of the various skin tones and ethnicities that make up that city. Thereby, making it beautiful. And thereby, telling patrons of all colors and ethnicities that all of them are beautiful. If any color/ethnicity is purposely dismissed from the canvas, then whoever is doing the hiring for that bar/club party is doing the job wrong. Unfortunately, that's the case of many parties in NYC gay nightlife. Hence why I venture to so few parties, and tips few go-go boys when I do go out.
I'm sick and fuckin' tired of NYC gay party promoters shoving only vanilla and caramel down my throat! Especially since too many of them act entitled, and either "hook" up with patrons on the job, instead of doing the actual job, which is to be rhythmic eye candy. Well, there's milk and dark chocolate out there to feast my eyes on as well. And when I go out, I want my eyes, mouth, and the rest of my body craving to taste the skin rainbow.
I say this because most NYC go-go boys are either white or light Latino. Occasionally, light Middle Easterners and Asians might get a shot at go-go dancing, but even those 2 are still too much a rarity. This leaves every other color and ethnicity in the skin rainbow totally ignored. Which primarily means Black males. Proof of that fact can easily be seen by a look at the Glam Award nominations for Best Burlesque Performer and Best Go-Go Boy.Most NYC parties, if they have a black go-go boy, he's usually a tall, bald, gym-bod ---the racist white-ordained standard of a beautiful black male. It's a standard that has been way overdone by gay porn and nightlife. Well, just like all of these parties do a rotation of variety with their white dancers, they need to do the same with their non-white go-go boys. For such a lack of diversity incites fetishizing of a color or ethnicity. And NYC should be the last place anyone experiences that.
That's why I'm glad to say that Playpen Mondays at The Cock does do a rotation with that variety. There I have seen black go-go boys who are simply fit as well as gym-bodied, with hair and without, and closer to my 5'6" height as well as tall.
Due to the ethnic diversity that makes up New York City's population, a gay party promoter in NYC can't be so blind to the need to represent all colors of the skin rainbow. Nor can he be so self-involved in making money that he ignores the reality of racism that exist in this city, and our community overall thanks to gay media. So I commend the host, Kareem McJagger. Whether or not it was his intention, his actions show that he (unlike most in this city) is not the type of promoter who hires go-go boys based on how much he makes in tips.
For the racism of mostly white crowds will tip the white go-go boy most. And this past election has proven that we are not as beyond racial bias (sexually or otherwise) as many white-owned media outlets will try deluding us to believe. But a newly out black male won't see himself as a sexual contender unless the things in our community that inspire us to see ourselves as such dismiss those of particular shades, ethnicities, or even sizes. And our community is marginalized enough. So we have to stop doing this to each other. And that includes gay nightlife doing their part, which is where many gays' confidence in being out and proud begins. With that said, gay nightlife has a responsibility to praise all colors in more ways that just taking their money. That can't be said of many places I've ventured to in my homestead of New York City, but it can be said of Playpen Mondays.
As you can see, if you want to get my attention for your party, and want to spread the word, then have a go-go boy roster whose rotation makes one word easily roll off my tongue....
DIVERSITY.
It is for this reason that I'm liking the diversity of go-go dancers at Playpen Mondays at The Cock. So if go-go boys are a draw as to where you hang out, I recommend going there so you can see what a go-go boy line-up in New York City should look like.
And it also doesn't hurt that when you strip down to your skivvies, you get a free shot. ;-)
Saturday, November 19, 2016
Scum-Dump Trump
In the wee-hours of November 9, 2016 Eastern Standard Time
The public's vote screamed "Hilary!"
But the smaller electoral vote screamed "Trump!"
Leaving the public to lose faith in the system
Since Trump has become our President-elect
So to those who voted for Trump
And those who voted 3rd party, and now complain
I have some choice words for you
That you need carved into your brain..
Every woman sexually assaulted
Every black person called "nigger"
Every Latino called "spic"
Every gay called "faggot" or "dyke"
Who are then bullied and beaten for that natural difference
Their blood is on your hands
Every transgender person called "freak"
Every Muslim reading the Koran
Every pregnant woman needing an abortion
Every immigrant seeking the American dream
Ostracized, taunted, and beaten
For making a decision to save less their wallet, but way more their soul
The blood of the unborn and unrealized is on your hands
It's not all of the blood
But if you have any resemblance of a conscience
Even a tiny drop is too much
And since you filled in that dot on that ballot
I guess you have no conscience at all
Now you might say
Those acts of bullying are people acting on their own
Well, the bully in them might have been dormant
But the biggest cyberbully lit that ugly spark
The cyberbully YOU voted to make
The leader of our great nation...
And his actions are to make him
The ultimate validator
For he should be the ultimate example of America
But this Scum-Dump…
…named Donald J. Trump
What is he the ultimate validator of?
He is a validator of racism
He is a validator of sexism
He is a validator of misogyny
He is a validator of sexual assault
He is a validator of overcompensating machismo
He is a validator of bullying
Therefore, he is a validator of cowardice
All signs of this were shown at his rallies
And it has now poured and grown onto our streets
Since he was declared the winner
Declared winner by the electoral college
NOT by the people
So if you Trump trolls beg to differ
About Trump being a true worthwhile leader
Where was his "masterful" voice
Telling these verbally and physically violent people
To STOP this violence at his rallies?
Where was his "masterful" voice
Asking for them to peacefully disagree?
Instead, he further incited them
Giving them the greenlight to go ahead and be cruel
So this long overdue call for calm is seen for what it is
Like his Trump University settlement
It's a crock to hide the crook
And you know why he was silent for so long?
It's because CONGRATULATIONS!
To all of you who voted for Donald J. Scum-Dump Trump
You are all his minions!
You are all his bitches!
Doing all of the dirty work
He's not brave enough to do for himself
It's like you're all employees for the Trump Organization
And he's doing the something, yet nothing that he has done before...
...He's not paying you shit!
Much like he has done with his taxes
Anyway, I said before that I guess you have no conscience
Then why am I talking to you?
It's because I'm hoping you have a human heart
One that now feels regret
After seeing the results of the choice you made that fateful day
A day that has caused for the 1st time in my lifetime
Marches in cities across the nation
Repulsed by the government's decision of a president-elect
For as I said before,
The people's vote cried "Hilary"
But those in government
Protecting their take-from-the-poor-give-to-the-rich credo
...It's them who cried "Trump"
So please feel regret
Prove to me, but more importantly to yourself
That you are not such a narcissist
A narcissist like the scum-dump
Whose name is Donald J. Trump
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