tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33249752989895047742024-03-13T07:47:19.913-04:00L's X-Ray VisionLeNair Xavier, unashamed of his porn past as "Tré Xavier", continues revealing his observations where he sees beneath the surface of all we've been told about sex, life & love.LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.comBlogger938125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-91144525485335902562021-02-04T18:19:00.001-05:002021-02-04T18:22:44.884-05:00Sex Toy Review: Kiiroo Tight Fit Sleeve for Onyx+<p>You might recall around this time last year, <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2020/02/sex-toy-review-kiiroo-onyx.html" target="_blank">I reviewed Kiiroo's interactive sex toy <b>Onyx+</b></a>. At the time, while I got great pleasure from it like my review said, there was a mental note I made that I never passed on to <b><a href="https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=604955&u=1255476&m=53402&urllink=&afftrack=" target="_blank">Kiiroo</a></b>.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mtmCrXrA2cY/YByAutS2laI/AAAAAAAARc0/6117UsKsWeQXCUNyavZXA9qD0pWAyrIbwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_20200211_151850801%257E2.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1152" data-original-width="2048" height="360" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mtmCrXrA2cY/YByAutS2laI/AAAAAAAARc0/6117UsKsWeQXCUNyavZXA9qD0pWAyrIbwCLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h360/IMG_20200211_151850801%257E2.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p>I was wondering if they had ever considered making textured sleeves for the Onyx+.</p><p>It turns out someone beat me to the ask. Because during a recent spontaneous venture over to <b>Kiiroo</b>'s website to see if there was anything new that I might have missed, I discovered they now have a Tight Fit sleeve for the Onyx+. I immediately wanted to get one because I have also wondered about how accommodating is the sleeve the Onyx+ for those of smaller girth. I mean, I personally believe my girth to be not too thin, not too thick. Being so in the middle, I became curious.</p><p>I purchased the Tight Fit sleeve having no idea of exactly what made it a tight-fit sleeve.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-B4hXkHeEz2U/YBx--5GZfyI/AAAAAAAARco/b7dMzsQPBM8z-5BpkyHgLf9ZVcKgRW29ACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_20210112_203841_234.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-B4hXkHeEz2U/YBx--5GZfyI/AAAAAAAARco/b7dMzsQPBM8z-5BpkyHgLf9ZVcKgRW29ACLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h400/IMG_20210112_203841_234.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p>So my opening the box is when I discovered that what made it a tighter fit is that it is textured with ticklers, which made me even happier.</p><p>The ticklers causing the thickness made it a 2-for-1 deal for me. For it was now 1) a thicker sleeve, but with 2) more texture. With that being the case, those new traits made the Onyx+ even more fun than stated in my original review. Leading me to play with it more often. So much so that the amount of times of play in testing is equating the many I stated in my <a href="https://vimeo.com/465634459" target="_blank"><b>Nude Dude Review</b> of Kiiroo's Keon</a>.</p><p>Therefore, if you have any version of the Onyx, I highly recommend getting the Tight Fit Sleeve to up the ante on the fun that I'm already sure you're having.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='496' height='412' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dw2Ifwa45Di54KqKnubefrFMCuPZIKSf3CF2BHiiEoVf8a0JGuvTNygrJPQL_H0FXVFIXm7LBqE-4g36DRVuQ' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><br /><p><br /></p>LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-57934356575860347892021-01-19T19:40:00.000-05:002021-01-19T19:40:28.192-05:00Gift Me 50 Loads For My 50 Years...And Being Sexy AF<p>I'm sure that title sounds like the sweetest music to the ears of every lust-filled barebacking pig out there. Probably also sounds good to those who don't bareback, but secretly want to. So much so that they still refer to it as "giving a load" even when there's a condom in play. In any case, it sounds like a porno <b>Treasure Island Media</b> or <b>Dark Alley Media</b>'s <b>Raw Fuck Club</b> would produce, which if it was, I would recommend it only if I was starring in it. 😉</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-RjCiv6OgKMg/YAd6llowG2I/AAAAAAAARbg/U8-JXTKnchUU4YMMuovoho1E1XZj1CoBACLcBGAsYHQ/s1100/50CocksForTurning50SexyAF.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="500" data-original-width="1100" height="290" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-RjCiv6OgKMg/YAd6llowG2I/AAAAAAAARbg/U8-JXTKnchUU4YMMuovoho1E1XZj1CoBACLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h290/50CocksForTurning50SexyAF.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>So as the milestone birthday, my 50th on March 31st is approaching, I'm that lust-filled barebacking pig who wants to be the sole bottom in a real-life version of that scenario.</p><p>This craving for so many cocks is very likely furthered by the pandemic. Because the last time I had a cock in my ass before the shutdown in March 2020 was just about 2 weeks prior. Then I made my home video "<b><a href="https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/6-toys-in-quarantine-43386441" target="_blank">6 Toys In Quarantine</a></b>" during the last week of March. In that video, 5 of the 6 toys used were for my ass in some kind of way. And the craving was so bad during one of them, I actually moaned, "Oh my God, I needed something in my ass so bad!"</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VWOtgotKHLo/YAaffGQys4I/AAAAAAAARbA/tKApEl22pS4UGbWDZIYGaCQJygs7KxpjwCLcBGAsYHQ/s400/6ToysInQuarantine-title.gif" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="225" data-original-width="400" height="225" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VWOtgotKHLo/YAaffGQys4I/AAAAAAAARbA/tKApEl22pS4UGbWDZIYGaCQJygs7KxpjwCLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h225/6ToysInQuarantine-title.gif" width="400" /></a></div><p>After that, I played with my butt toys more often. However, that did not make my craving for a real dick disappear. My hole was still there waiting and growing in its needed to filled by a real adult human male's cock. That finally happened in August after a walk in Harlem with a friend, which brings me to why I'm writing this...</p><p>It is to put it out there in the universe to possibly make it happen. While I'm sure some doubt such a method, normally I myself would be one of those non-believers. However, I will let you know that this seems to have unexpectedly worked before.</p><p>For the hook-up after that walk, in which I flip-fucked but more so bottomed, happened <i>exactly one week after</i> my <b>Thotyssey X-Rayed Sex</b> article "<b><a href="https://thotyssey.com/2020/08/17/x-rayed-sex-dear-first-prospective-top-since-quarantine/" target="_blank">Dear First Prospective Top Since Quarantine</a></b>" was published. That train ride home had my hole twitching with glee over how the fill of <b><a href="https://onlyfans.com/philiplynwood" target="_blank">Philip Lynwood</a></b>'s cock relieved me of my ass' hunger to be filled. But that was late August.</p><p>It is now 5 months later and still no cock has filled my ass yet. And I have been one sex party, which had good safety protocols, such as temperature checks upon entry and mandatory mask-wearing. However, the rise in cases caused it to have (like most parties) another hiatus. And I never got to bottom there because the patrons had that racist expectation of me being a top because I'm black. Hence the straw that broke the camel's back to inspire me to write the poem "<b><a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2020/12/like-you-see-all-gays-as-sexual-equals.html" target="_blank">Like You</a></b>".</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://vimeo.com/494712460" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" data-original-height="212" data-original-width="702" height="121" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f2tVzjVsnsI/YAakbGvpvnI/AAAAAAAARbM/aFfiSWgDkDsXFU0MGqQoJCyp9I9TaNXEwCLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h121/LikeYou-title.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p>So now, my asshole's hunger for cock has grown to want not just one cock, but many. That is unless I found myself getting into a relationship in a short span of time. And with my tenacity,...let's get back to the reality of how my fantasy is not too impossible to believe because I've always said that when I get good dick that I become an insatiable power bottom. The impossible part might be for it to actually happen.</p><p>For any kind of birthday gangbang to take place, we need this pandemic to get under control so that the event/room occupancy can have less restrictions. And let's say that part happens. The next potential impossibility is me. Because I know 50 guys I could <i>fantasize</i> about putting a nice load in my ass, but I don't actually know 50 guys personally that I would want to load my hole. Of course, some of them might be able to shoot multiple loads. In that case, that might be my 50.</p><p>In any case, I'm dreaming big because it's my 50th birthday. After all the hardships so many bi/gay males overcome with their coming out, I deserve to dream big. Especially after taking good enough care of myself to look this good at this age.</p><p>So if this could possibly come about, only time will tell. But like I said before, this is me putting the wish out there to the universe.</p>LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-57502158463719585332020-12-26T16:57:00.006-05:002021-01-19T19:59:25.741-05:00Like You - See All Gays As Sexual Equals<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bOTyZAaLF0k/X-ew0SkLg_I/AAAAAAAARZU/S_ecZysfG4ku0bHl4tFM9XkpCyBX0oC3ACLcBGAsYHQ/s702/LikeYou-title.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="212" data-original-width="702" height="194" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bOTyZAaLF0k/X-ew0SkLg_I/AAAAAAAARZU/S_ecZysfG4ku0bHl4tFM9XkpCyBX0oC3ACLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h194/LikeYou-title.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><p>There have been enough instances in which my medium to dark-complexioned self will see a white or light-skinned guy check me out, look like they want to talk to me, or just fuck and be my top, but never make a move. However, they have no problem approaching a white or light-skinned guy to become their top, or approach a medium to dark-skinned guy to be his bottom.</p><p>Another instance I have seen often is a white or light-skinned guy who claims to be completely versatile or a versatile bottom, and while he might seem to be open to playing with guys of various colors/ethnicities, his urge to top never seems to surface with medium to dark-complexioned males. Instead, his urge to top only happens with white and light-skinned males.</p><p>These are definite displays within sexual racism.</p><p>Sexual racism is not just saying, "I'm not into <insert color/ethnicity here>". It is also limiting a person of a certain color/ethnicity to being only one specific sexual role. Such as the porn-induced idea that if a medium to dark-complexioned black male is to have sex with a white or light-complexioned person, that medium to dark-skinned guy can only be a top.</p><p>Also, the idea says that black males within that hue must be aggressive in their topping. Aggressive in a way that to the sane eye borders on sexual brutality and rape. A style that is a sexualization of white guilt demanding punishment. So if it's in porn today, then that means the porn producers and directors are problematic creatures in the mix. And the performers regardless of color are also problematic. Prove every bit as to why I think of most porn actors as a past poem states, "<b><a href="https://youtu.be/DcgOsT1jS3U" target="_blank">Fuckable Body,..Unlovable Soul</a></b>".</p><p>I know some are quick to say that there are more blacks bottoming in porn now. Yes, there are, but not many. Nor do they have a variety of looks like their white counterparts. And before I continue, take note:</p><p>The few porn scenes that you see of blacks bottoming would have never come to be if I didn't speak up about it during my time doing studio-based porn under the name "<b>Tré Xavier</b>", as I pointed out in <a href="https://callingemout.tumblr.com/post/180278650738/2-reasons-why-you-are-seeing-more-blacks-bottoming" target="_blank">an article on my "Calling Out Ass Holes" Tumblr</a> . In short, <i><u><b>there would be no them if there was no me</b></u></i>. </p><p>So I started needed conversations then, and I am starting needed conversations now.</p><p>While I did write that article and see the slight changes, it hasn't changed the overwhelming racist sexual expectations of many white and light-skinned males enough. Like most forms of racism, it is so indoctrinated into all of our minds that most people of every color don't realize they're exemplifying it. That includes the black males playing the roles of the overly aggressive.</p><p>In most possible sexual encounters, I am still expected to be a top to a white/light person. Never mind the fact that my bubbly ass makes me much more desirable as a bottom than my proportionate dick does as a top.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-uTj2d_-32TQ/X-eumhV0oTI/AAAAAAAARZI/gfhR85ZsFPY4OWWsujmyPGVPxuzWE3j_gCLcBGAsYHQ/s800/11-16-2020NudeComposite1.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="800" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-uTj2d_-32TQ/X-eumhV0oTI/AAAAAAAARZI/gfhR85ZsFPY4OWWsujmyPGVPxuzWE3j_gCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/11-16-2020NudeComposite1.jpg" /></a></div><p></p><p>Still, white/light-complexioned guys, (<u>even when they are over 6 feet tall</u>) come to my 5'6" 145 -160 lbs. frame having me being their top be their initial <i>ass</i>-umption. Meanwhile, a white/light-skinned male with the same height and weight and front and back endowments is either <i>negotiated with</i> about their position, or immediately assumed to be a bottom.</p><p>If you have problems with the white guy being assumed to be a bottom, then you are missing the point. For the point is at least there is multiple choice of how a white/light-skinned guy is approached. I, as a medium to dark-skinned Black man, don't get that same multiple choice. In any case, it's a clear sign that there is some racial profiling about medium to dark-skinned black males with their sexuality, and it needs to be addressed.</p><p>Of course that needed talk won't happen when the ignorance of many white/light-skinned guys is so obvious around us. It is shown in them doing studio-based porn. It is shown in the porn they do to show on Twitter, Chaturbate, OnlyFans, and the like. And it is shown by those not doing any kind of porn at all.</p><p>If you think I'm wrong, and are ready to give the prostituting stereotypical gay porn actor a pass by saying that he was paid to do that, then explain his OnlyFans, JustForFans, 4MyFans, etc.! If a white/light-skinned guy does studio-based porn as well as porn on those fansites, you practically never see him top a medium to dark-complexioned male on those fansites. What is so telling of how brainwashed and racist they actually are is the fact that the purpose of those sites for them is to do things without the puppet strings of a studio-based porn producer and director. Yet, there they are. Still under the puppet strings. Being another white/light whimpy, wincing bottom over the black dick that has sold out to yet another white person's desire to fetishize them.</p><p>With that said, just because you're a white guy doing 1 or 2 scenes for <b>NoirMale</b>, your run back to your all-white world still exposes you are a racist. OR because you have signed up to be the latest token black male topping white boys for <b>CockyBoys</b>, you're still a sellout and part of this problem. Neither scenario (or one like it) exonerates any guy of any color as to how much they are another lump of feces floating around in a septic tank. Thereby further exasperating this problematic imagery.</p><p>And yes, as much as the gay porn industry tries to deny accountability for how we gay males see each other sexually, I still beg to differ and cite porn as both a teacher and indicator. Based on the facts I am presenting here, disgustingly more so, teacher. </p><p>This is why when we speak of "not being into" a person of a certain ethnicity or color, we must ask ourselves if our feeling that way is naturally us as an individual, or if something outside of our nature influenced that definition of beauty. White entitlement and the spoiled brat mindset it enables causes many white males to refuse to do that pause and look within. Hence why they are the quickest to call their racism "preference".</p><p>And colorism being a branch of racism that makes the gay community like Pre-Civil Rights Movement America entices many light-skinned people of color to play along for acceptance.</p><p>Now, black males are by no means exonerated from blame in this problem. After all, the black porn actors (past and present) in such interracial scenes, and the black gays who heed to the call of such white/light males to play what I call the "gorilla nigger" are willing participants. I am proud to say that I am not one of those black guys. I have probably lost <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2015/10/from-daddy-issues-to-cyber-lynching.html" target="_blank">most of the white/light guys I've dated because of it</a>. If so, their loss will one day be a real man's gain.</p><p>Hence the need for this poem. We are about to head into the year 2021. So by now we should all be seen more as equals in all ways, and that includes sexually. Yet we are not, and that need to stop TODAY.</p>
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WygfP7zy5Vk/X--hQWxs3oI/AAAAAAAARZs/FC94c8HmMl4rfQALgWoLw9DGffMtCedrwCLcBGAsYHQ/s719/LikeYou-sq.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="719" data-original-width="719" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WygfP7zy5Vk/X--hQWxs3oI/AAAAAAAARZs/FC94c8HmMl4rfQALgWoLw9DGffMtCedrwCLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h400/LikeYou-sq.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><script src="https://player.vimeo.com/api/player.js"></script>LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-526848448059565832020-12-20T23:20:00.002-05:002020-12-20T23:20:30.213-05:00For Anal: Ina Wave vs. Loki Wave<p>I have often said that the sex toy industry is quite often too gender-specific for its own good. Case in point, of the 8 sex toys I have reviewed for my <b><a href="https://vimeo.com/channels/nudedudereview" target="_blank">Nude Dude Review</a>, </b><u>4 - half of them</u><b> </b>are marketed to females. Yet, my male body got great enough pleasure from them that by the end of the video, I had stripped down to some very skimpy underwear.</p><p>This brings me to the target toys of this article. <b>The Ina Wave</b>, a rabbit vibrator marketed to females, and; <b>The Loki Wave</b>, a vibrating prostate massager marketed to males.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hjVJBL8BjVY/X-APt_a9ajI/AAAAAAAARYU/udDx12sCBCwUBqGFJgy1dQGAHCDPAQD-ACLcBGAsYHQ/s378/4qyxfl.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="208" data-original-width="378" height="352" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hjVJBL8BjVY/X-APt_a9ajI/AAAAAAAARYU/udDx12sCBCwUBqGFJgy1dQGAHCDPAQD-ACLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h352/4qyxfl.gif" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>By my working at a sex shop when these 2 sex toys came out, I got my hands on both of them. Now, many would expect that as a male, I would favor the Loki Wave over the Ina Wave. Well, you would be quite wrong.</p><p>I actually prefer the Ina Wave. In fact, I have even said to co-workers and customers that to my body, the Loki Wave feels like a nice sex toy, but the Ina Wave...makes me feel like I have an actual guest.</p><p>Perhaps the slight difference in shape of the area that lays on my taint is a factor. I definitely know that the width of that part is a factor for me.</p><p>For when I and/or a playmate plays with my taint, I prefer a finger. Approximately the size of the external stimulator on the Ina Wave, which also reaches the right length along my taint. Meanwhile, the external stimulator on the Loki Wave is more suitable for someone who prefers fingers (plural), and at a longer length for their external stimulation, be they male or female. I know this from a discussion with a former female co-worker who said that she preferred the Loki Wave over the Ina Wave for her vaginal pleasure.</p><p>Also, when placed side by side, I found the Ina Wave can go a tad deeper inside than the Loki Wave. So that slighter depth plus that motion might very well land on my prostate in a way to be more stimulating. </p><p>Even though this article has been a long time coming, I hope that the next time you consider buying one of the two, give the other a look. Because the one marketed to bodies of the opposite gender might actually be the one you're looking for. </p><p>Trust me on this. Because remember, I have a history of discovering such things. 😉</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_4HhTLcCCAc/X-Agdy7uOMI/AAAAAAAARYg/0ws4AnsWPpwyqh6SpbHNyZO63_OeyKI7QCLcBGAsYHQ/s780/InaWave_vs_LokiWave-space.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="780" data-original-width="520" height="640" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_4HhTLcCCAc/X-Agdy7uOMI/AAAAAAAARYg/0ws4AnsWPpwyqh6SpbHNyZO63_OeyKI7QCLcBGAsYHQ/w426-h640/InaWave_vs_LokiWave-space.jpg" width="426" /></a></div><p></p>LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-49266320133400073522020-11-25T13:51:00.002-05:002020-11-25T14:09:51.487-05:00Enter, Thrust, Throb, Cream + backstoryOne beauty of having your own laptop keep in the solitude of your room is that you can be as much of a pervert about it as you want to be. Namely, through your wallpaper. For this is a screenshot of the wallpaper I had on my computer at the time my song "<b>Enter, Thrust, Throb, Cream</b>" came to mind.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3Fbuojqrbbs/X75VXCHWSNI/AAAAAAAARXQ/OptGGXEHOIQp7VMRRxajgGtoIwCzoyD6QCLcBGAsYHQ/s1360/2020-10-13.png" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="768" data-original-width="1360" height="369" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3Fbuojqrbbs/X75VXCHWSNI/AAAAAAAARXQ/OptGGXEHOIQp7VMRRxajgGtoIwCzoyD6QCLcBGAsYHQ/w654-h369/2020-10-13.png" width="654" /></a>It's a still from a NextDoor Studios scene in which <b>Michael DelRay</b> tops <b>Scotty Zee</b>. So that's Scotty Zee cute butt.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">For me, sex is art. So while this photo does turn me on, I don't stop and jerk off to this pic. I turn on my laptop see the nature-created artistry of a cock inside a nice wanting ass, and get to work.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">However, on one particular day, I got up to take a break from a project. In doing so, I closed the web browser and all open windows, leaving me to see just that wallpaper. Suddenly, a subconscious thought came to me. I can tell it was my subconscious because as it reached my conscious mind, its volume slowly increased. It was 4 words said rhythmically describing what was going on in the picture, and the result. I knew that because while I couldn't instantly figure out what the middle 2 words were, I knew the first word was "Enter" and the last was "Cream" - 2 words I use very often when describing the process of sex.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">As I thought more about it, I realized the other 2 words were to describe actions that fascinate me during sex. Knowing how I've always been fascinated how penetrative sex is a simple thrusting back and forth that brings one so much euphoric physical pleasure, it should be no surprise how the next word was "Thrust". Followed by the next fascinating thing during sex is the various times a guy's cock will throb as he's getting closer and closer to orgasm and ejaculation. Making the other word "Throb".</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">With the words now set in their rhythm, next came describing each word's part in sex from the entering of the penis to the ejaculation(s) that often concludes it. And this is the end result a cappella:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div>
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LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-75283940184545526402020-10-29T12:16:00.004-04:002020-10-29T12:39:31.524-04:00Which Responds Best To The Sounds of Sex?...Lovense or We-Vibe<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: right;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WUrrZ-70lQE/X5rn5oJnrMI/AAAAAAAARV4/1xYAxxwGNVQqgrMImcnMklyA2L-_yZvigCLcBGAsYHQ/s1280/LovenseOrWeVibe.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="1280" height="360" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WUrrZ-70lQE/X5rn5oJnrMI/AAAAAAAARV4/1xYAxxwGNVQqgrMImcnMklyA2L-_yZvigCLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h360/LovenseOrWeVibe.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><p>Even before my exploration into interactive sex toys with <b>Kiiroo</b>, I have always wanted my vibrating sex toys to vibrate in sync with the sounds of sex in the porn I was watching. Mainly those toys that I use anally, which are many.</p><p>So when the technology for such vibrating sex toys evolved to having app connections that make the toy vibrate to music, it was only a matter of time before I put my own spin on it.</p><p>You see, I was never impressed by the idea of a sex toy vibrating to music. Probably because for me, I want the vibrations to be connected to who I'm fantasizing about. So as much as I'm a Prince fan, and love the song "It" as a song to play during sex, I'm not going to masturbate to its vibrations because I never had a masturbation fantasy about Prince. </p><p>I will admit though that song does work well for that sex toy feature.</p><p>Anyway, it took awhile, but eventually I realized that while I didn't want to use music for the syncing vibration with audio feature like it was marketed, I could practice what I always preach....I came up with my own way of using that feature.</p><p>The idea probably came to me thanks to Kiiroo. For their <b>Titan</b> syncing with porn is pretty much what I was looking to do with the sync-with-audio feature of my anal toys. Luckily, I had 2 anal sex toys to test my theory with. The <b>Hush</b> by <b>Lovense</b> and the <b>Vector</b> by <b>We-Vibe</b>.</p><p>So what were the results of my tests?</p><p>Trust me, I love both brands and butt toys. However, when it comes to the sounds of sex, <b>Lovense</b> beats We-Vibe by a wide margin. Hence why I now also own a <b>Lovense Edge</b>, which was after the Hush that I used for this video:</p>
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<p>In my testing, I found what gives Lovense the edge is their sensitivity feature. That sensitivity feature makes it more responsive to non-musical sounds, such as those in the title of my compilation: body slaps, bed squeaks, and moans. That is why you were hearing me moan over the sounds of the video. I was feeling (and enjoying) the Hush vibrating in my butt in perfect synchronicity to those sounds in the porn. Hence how I wound up coming close to the same time as <b>Marco Paris</b>.</p><p>With We-Vibe, whether the sounds of sex are in an audio track or by using the microphone to hear porn you have playing, you can see the app picking up the sound. However, the app picking it up does not transfer as well to the Vector, if at all. And the changing it from "bass", "mid-range", or "treble" didn't change that much. I figured if anything that the Vector would pick up the sexual sounds if you set it to react to mid-range or treble, but no such luck. For it seems the We-Connect app is meant for picking up the bass, mid-range, and treble of music only.</p><p>This review is not condemning We-Vibe's Vector. It is just simply pointing out that it's audio-responses do not respond to the sounds of sex. Everything great I said about the We-Vibe Vector in <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2019/09/sex-toy-review-we-vibe-vector.html" target="_blank">my initial review of it</a> still remains true.</p><p>With that, I leave you with the video compilation that I made for the purpose of this test. Appropriately titled "Body Slaps, Bed Squeaks & Moans". </p><p><a href="https://1drv.ms/v/s!AklovIuy4VIKgbZdX-5_R21xPtOx9w?e=Q8pNRG">https://1drv.ms/v/s!AklovIuy4VIKgbZdX-5_R21xPtOx9w?e=Q8pNRG</a></p>LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-5068909415198485202020-09-27T17:42:00.006-04:002020-10-29T12:50:39.588-04:00Suggested Sex Toy Combo: Wanda & Stroke Sleeve<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jUoAQOrac8U/X3D-rP-AZUI/AAAAAAAARUw/lTxMBDnREYYLmR9bT6CzZvE0q-RbBKhkQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1280/SexToyCombo-StrokeSleeve%252BWanda-title.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="1280" height="360" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jUoAQOrac8U/X3D-rP-AZUI/AAAAAAAARUw/lTxMBDnREYYLmR9bT6CzZvE0q-RbBKhkQCLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h360/SexToyCombo-StrokeSleeve%252BWanda-title.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br />
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In case you didn't know or have forgotten, I occasionally write sex articles for the sex toy company <b><a href="https://www.blogger.com/www.kiiroo.com" target="_blank">Kiiroo</a></b>. A few months ago however, they asked me for an erotic short story. The one I gave was actually a true story. Recently though, I pitched to them a story that was actual fiction.<br />
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The idea was born out of 2 facts I've confessed to when porn is part of my masturbation:<br />
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1) I watch more straight porn than gay porn, and;<br />
2) While I'm totally versatile in action, in my fantasies however, I'm more of a bottom.<br />
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Keeping those 2 facts in mind, then you are right to conclude that the pleasure one assumes that male is giving that female's vagina is pleasure I'm imagining him giving to my ass.</div><div><br /></div><div>My masturbation fantasy is usually nothing more than him still being an actor in straight porn. So he has sex will a lot of women, and while I'm the only guy he wants, he is not in a relationship with me. In fact, whether he even has an actual relationship is never part of the fantasy. So since he's having sex with me and those porn starlets, he was definitely bisexual. It's just a matter of what kind of bisexual was he. More gay than straight, more straight than gay, or right down the middle.</div><div><br /></div><div>In any case, when I decided to build a story around that fantasy, I felt a deeper involvement between the two was more interesting. At first <i>conscious</i> thought, it seemed unbelievable. However, the more I thought about the idea, the more I realized how the fantasy of me, a predominately gay bisexual having sex with a male who does straight porn as expression within a relationship...</div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-size: x-large;">This could possibly be someone's reality.</span></div><div><br /></div><div>Like I said, for this short story, I made the couple have an actual relationship. Then I upped the ante some more. For the initial story idea was to make my character and the pornstar (whose name is "Zen Massif") boyfriends that had been together for a few years. Then came the last minute idea to up the ante even more so by making us <i>married</i>. It was a means to indicate how while being an unwed couple for a few years shows that you have been through a lot of discovery with each other, getting to the point of marriage means the bond is even stronger. You need such a strong bond if you're going to be involved with someone who is not only in the sex industry as a porn actor, but with whom you have a non-monogamous relationship.</div><div><br /></div>
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<div>With that in mind, I'm sure many are wondering why would anyone even fantasize, much less actually be so deeply involved with a porn actor. It is because sex between 2 (or more) people <i>truly</i> attracted to each other is a beautiful sight. Especially when the motivation bringing the together are pure. Such as being void of racism, or sexualizing of daddy issues, or glamorizing incest. When absent of such motivations, sex alone or in an orgy has a beauty more than words can describe. Even if you know one or more of those people are romantically involved with someone else. With that in mind, the thought of watching my significant other being sexual attracted to someone else, pleasuring them that once (twice or occasionally), <u>but</u> <i>always</i> coming home to/with me to pleasure me many times over is a massive turn-on. Also, having that outside person be the means by which you can see the beauty of your partner's sexual motions that you can't see when he is with you, or that you might miss if you have strategically placed mirrors to see yourselves.</div><div><br /></div></div>
<div>Keeping all that in mind, I titled it "<b><a href="https://www.kiiroo.com/blogs/articles/tales-of-a-straight-male-porn-actors-husband-an-erotic-story?rfsn=809424.05d20">Tales of a Male Straight Porn Actor's Husband</a></b>".</div>
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<div>I wrote this story to be more of a preface for more tales to follow. Tales that could easily be adapted to become a porn film. So what if this story was to be adapted to become an actual porn film? With my ownership and pride in this fantasy, <u>the only way a porn adaption would get my blessing is if I played the storyteller</u>. So yes, I would actually come out of my retirement from doing studio-based porn to play that role. And hence why before the story was published, I made my own banner. Even though I knew Kiiroo would make one up themselves.</div><div><div>
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Now, if I would be playing the storyteller, then who would play my porn stud husband, "Zen Massif"?</div>
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Whoever I would approve of, with the exception of being in love with me, the guy playing Zen Massif would have to be a great deal of a real-life version of him. Firstly, he would definitely have to be sexually attracted to me. Because I refuse to fake the chemistry. Also, the guy would have to have shown his bisexual pride by being an out and proud bisexual. He cannot treat his straight or gay side like each side is on a half of a flip-switch. With that side it flips on being triggered only by the weight of dollars placed on it. Instead both his straight and gay side are triggered by the weight of the his prospective sex partner's sexual spirit.</div><div><br /></div>
<div>The only way the porn actor can mentally and sexually differ from Zen is how his bisexuality does not have to be predominately gay like Zen and myself. He could be a predominately straight bisexual. Having just enough gay and a lust for me to fuck my ass into oblivion for all the world to see---at least twice.</div>
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<div>The "at least twice" is in reference to my doing the aforementioned continuation of the story. That continuation depends on either how well the story is received, <i>or</i> just for my own entertainment. In any case, each part would be a sexual escapade featuring Zen and/or my character either together, or with other people that would also be one scene in a porn flick. And at least 2 of those detailed stories would have Zen with his husband.</div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zbOrp8FvMXo/XzolLbD3lwI/AAAAAAAARSY/tx2sfluxcqcq3i6FiABSWoS_GQLqmt5IwCLcBGAsYHQ/s540/SemperBiCover.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="540" data-original-width="380" height="178" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zbOrp8FvMXo/XzolLbD3lwI/AAAAAAAARSY/tx2sfluxcqcq3i6FiABSWoS_GQLqmt5IwCLcBGAsYHQ/w124-h178/SemperBiCover.jpg" width="124" /></a></div>Whatever the case, it would not be the overkill of bodies in most bisexual porn movies, especially of today. For most bisexual porn movies today are MMF 3-way after MMF 3-way. You hardly ever see nowadays how and if the guy behaves differently when he is alone with a male compared to when he is alone with a female. The last time I recall seeing a <i>total</i> 1-on-1 scene within a bisexual porn was in the movie "Semper Bi", and that movie was made over a decade ago. With that in mind, I must sadly surmise that all the MMF scenes in one movie is probably a tactic used to prevent you from seeing when the male porn performer has monetized his sexual orientation. An act that is a total contradiction to the character of Zen that anyone playing him should not do. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So will those stories happen? Only time will tell. In any case, I do hope you read the erotic story, enjoy it, then let me know if you want some follow-up stories.</div></div></div>
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LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-2678754889517186202020-06-26T09:17:00.005-04:002020-09-01T23:34:48.650-04:00SEX.... Never Lose Its Fascination<div><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QzdsXgRQp1c/XvXuQHGXgrI/AAAAAAAARPA/Hdveybt0yX4_SwA3vCCHnlunHoWpamc0QCK4BGAsYHg/s1280/NeverLoseItsFascination-title.jpg" style="clear: left; display: inline; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="1280" height="351" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QzdsXgRQp1c/XvXuQHGXgrI/AAAAAAAARPA/Hdveybt0yX4_SwA3vCCHnlunHoWpamc0QCK4BGAsYHg/w625-h351/NeverLoseItsFascination-title.jpg" width="625" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Sex has always been an interesting subject to me.</div><div><br /></div><div>Looking back to being a grade school child when I learned exactly what sex is; then starting to masturbate, which gave me some idea of how great sex feels to the body; then as I got older, even as a virgin, learning sex was a beautiful and powerful thing. Such a powerful thing that it can create life. Then once I finally experienced it for myself, I further understood that power. Seeing how while I already knew that when done right, sex can create life in a physical state, I also saw how it can create life in a spiritual state as well. But I additionally saw how when done wrong, it can be just as easily end those states of life. So the older I get, the more I understand how we have to respect that power and not take it lightly. And I try to educate people to do the same.</div><div><br /></div><div>Just the outward simplicity of sex... simple back and forth motions. Causing all those inward complexities of sensations throughout the body, effecting the mind, and changing lives. ALL OF THAT IS FASCINATING.</div><div><br /></div><div>And as long as there is life to continue, it will never cease being fascinating. Especially among us human being. So I wrote a poem to talk about the never ending fascination that is sex. Enjoy.</div><div><br /></div><script src="https://player.vimeo.com/api/player.js"></script>
<iframe src="https://player.vimeo.com/video/430760867?title=0&byline=0&portrait=0" width="640" height="360" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowfullscreen></iframe>LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-83147296062000699092020-05-19T13:32:00.009-04:002020-05-19T16:31:02.241-04:00The Reconstructive Surgery of a Sex Toy - Thunder Stroke<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dSAli_3uVL4/XsLmoOg-pCI/AAAAAAAAEQM/NsUaTFOX5NMf6XXywSfgpXK3u8_Bp48sQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/IMG_20200517_040456564%257E5.jpg" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="360" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dSAli_3uVL4/XsLmoOg-pCI/AAAAAAAAEQM/NsUaTFOX5NMf6XXywSfgpXK3u8_Bp48sQCLcBGAsYHQ/s640/IMG_20200517_040456564%257E5.jpg" width="640" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2">Have you ever purchased a sex toy, and once you got it home to test it out, it ended up disappointing you?</font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2"><br /></font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2">Well, that happened to me when I purchased a <b>Thunder Stroke 2-in-1 Wand Attachment</b> from XR Brands. I was so hyped to used this. Because I already have their Hummingbird, which I love. A love that is clearly displayed by the cumshot at the end of <a href="https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/a-hummingbird-rides-a-magic-wand-30372711" target="_blank">the XTube video I made using it</a>. With one side of the 2 play pieces on the Thunder Stroke resembling the Hummingbird, I felt that would just be an extra version of that texture. For my real reason for ordering the Thunder Stroke was for the piece that stimulates primarily the head of the penis.</font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2"><br /></font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2">Unfortunately, that didn't work out as I had planned. For I didn't realize before purchasing the attachment that the side of the Magic Wand's head gives less vibration that the top. This miscalculation was because of the fact that I have gotten off by putting the side of the Magic Wand's head on my frenulum numerous times. I even have an unreleased video to prove it. But all of those times were without something possibly obstructing the intensity of the vibration. Hence why the Thunder Stroke didn't work as I had hoped. The 2 stimulation sleeves of the Thunder Stroke get their vibration from the side of a Magic Wand. Unlike the Hummingbird, which gets its vibration from the more intense top of a Magic Wand.</font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2"><br /></font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2">My Aries' stubbornness however refused to make this purchase a waste. So I decided to try making the Thunder Stroke like the Hummingbird. I cut both sleeves off of the Thunder Stroke, then re-attached the one for stimulating the head of the penis to the top of the attachment with a shoe repair adhesive called Shoe Goo. I occasionally checked it over 3 days. Each time, it held firm. But the ultimate test came when I decided to make the video below. For that was my 1st time using it. So I was wondering:</font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2"><br /></font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2">Will the intense vibration of the Magic Wand prove me wrong to think that my reconstruction of the Thunder Stroke would be a success?</font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2"><br /></font></div><div style="text-align: left;"><font size="2">Well, there was only one way to find out? And you see it all down below. If successful, perhaps XR Brands will redo their Thunder Stroke.</font></div></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The mandatory quarantines mandated by governments across the globe because of the COVID-19 pandemic has caused a variety of stresses. Some much more important than others. Such an example is that along with the extreme importance of financial worries ensued by this quarantine, there is also the less important, but just as real sexual frustration.<br />
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If you are following the rules, as much as you might want to, you are not partaking of hook-ups with a fuck-buddy, or the person you just started dating. Or the person you've been dating for awhile, but don't want to live with for an unpredictable amount of time.<br />
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With such scenarios, one will need to resort to the age-old release of sexual tension known as <b><i>masturbation</i></b> in order to calm the moments of lust that can spring up on us at any time. Thinking of that reality and to let you know you are not alone is what inspired the poem recited in this video.<br />
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And while I hope you in some way prepared yourself for how to get your sexual urges through this trying time, I more importantly hope that you will STAY HOME TO STAY SAFE.<br />
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While I think this poem is self-explanatory, its lyrics might have gone over some readers' head.<br />
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The gist of it is that if a man says he's a bottom, no matter how much you might want his cock in your ass, don't pressure him about it. Much like I said in "<a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2017/05/how-versatile-bottoms-tops.html" target="_blank">How To Make A Versatile Bottom Top</a>", let him know <i>only once</i> about your interest to have him top you, then leave the topic alone. Let circumstance bring him around <b><i>if</i></b> such is in the cards for him. And even if that never happens, take solace in the fact that you have masturbation to get off to the thought if it happening.<br />
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<br />LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-13620806021611121732020-04-07T23:35:00.000-04:002022-12-09T11:52:15.334-05:00Steven Lee DoppelgangerI seem to have a knack for picking doppelgangers of male pornstars from both gay and straight porn. In fact, I'll name 5 quick names right now in order of occurrence:<br />
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1) Mason Wyler<br />
2)Tommy Hansen<br />
3) Denis Reed<br />
4) Mark Ashley<br />
5) Charles Dera<br />
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In all of these encounters, the person reminded me of the pornstar upon sight. However, there is one case in which, the recently known pornstar proved to be a doppelganger for a past playmate.<br />
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That pornstar is <b>Steven Lee</b>.<br />
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Back in 2008, I met a cute French guy at Splash Bar in NYC (which is now gone). The guy's name was Jean. He was quite shy, and we kept running into each other various weeks there. It became what happens sometimes between regulars at a bar/club. You greet each other, but that's all you do. After the hello, you go your separate ways. Eventually, we spoke to each other. And however we started speaking, we didn't stop. It led to me going back to where he w staying.<br />
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During that night together, I discovered that he didn't actually live here in New York. That place was where he stayed when he came to New York on business, which at that time was often.<br />
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This year I turn 49 years old. That's just one year away from me being 50. Half a century old. Well, in recent months, I have come to realize that I am enjoying sex a lot more. Even when writing <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2019/05/evolution-of-my-bottoming.html" target="_blank">Evolution of My Bottoming</a> and <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2019/04/evolution-of-my-topping.html" target="_blank">Evolution of My Toppping</a>, I was unaware that this growing love of sex was happening. What makes me most proud of it is the fact that this joy is achieved without any kind of substances. No poppers. No alcohol. No marijuana. And nothing harder. This joy of sex from foreplay to orgasm is made from a clear mind.<br />
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So with substance-abuse being too much a common part of gay sex, I decided to take a step back and think about what got me to this point. And what can I say for others in my age, or will at some point become my age, feel inspired to follow so they can have the same joy. I'm not going to promise you that some of these reason won't be controversial, but like I said, they got me to this point. Maybe they can do the same for you in some way.<br />
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<b><u>I came out late</u></b><br />
Over the years of questioning my sexual orientation, I observed and listened to various aspects reported in the media of gay male sexuality by gay males. This allowed me to decide if I ever came out as gay or bisexual what I wanted out of my gay sexual encounters. Instead of like many gay males who come out young, listening to a more seasoned gay male who is very likely jaded and doing various physically and mentally unhealthy means to escape past traumas that have left scars on the body, heart, and mind.<br />
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This is not to say that coming out young is a guarantee of you not coming up with a list such as mine. But my observations have shown me that it is not common for a young gay male to make such a list for themselves. They often follow the aforementioned wrong path young, then grow old still following it, and passing it on to the next generation of gays. Hence the massive substance-abusing dysfunction that plagues the LGBTQ+ community today.<br />
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<b><u>I've gotten over my prostituting moments</u></b><br />
Unfortunately, prostitution is a commonality in the gay male community. Ignorant and often hypocritical parents push their children towards prostitution by throwing them out of the house when the child is discovered to be any degree of gay. Also, other (usually older) gay males exploit them with prostitution through gay nightlife, porn, and escorting sites. This leaves that gay male to survive by turning the only thing they have left into a commodity--- their body.<br />
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No one of mentally and emotionally sound mind sets out to be a prostitute. So prostitution is what a mentally and emotionally healthy person resorts to when they are broken down by the world around them, and backed into a financial corner. Sadly, the older gay males in our community, particularly those on the down low and the older gays selling out the younger gays don't want our community as a whole to ever realize that. That is why the escorting sites are allowed a place in many Gay Pride Marches.<br />
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The problem is as someone who was never an escort, but had prostituting moments in his porn and go-go dancing career, I am too aware of what that life does to one's psyche.<br />
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I have written a number of times about how much I loathed the gay-for-pay bitch in denial, <b>Double R</b>, who I got stuck working with in my scene for "Love of the Dick IV". His antics made him nothing I wanted to have sex with, yet out of a need for the underpaid rate ethnic studios pay their models, I did it. That prostituting moment haunted me for quite awhile. Resulting in me often having flashes of it during a sexual encounter in which I was feeling great joy. This especially would happen during encounters in which I was topping. Resulting in me losing my erection.<br />
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Keeping that result in mind, what do you think would happen to someone who makes such joyless sexual encounters their everyday? Like an escort. <i>Making sex a chore, instead of a means for pleasure. A compartmentalizing that is contradictory to what sex was made for.</i> One would have to use something, like drugs or alcohol to lessen the reaction to or totally repress flashbacks of such encounters. And do note that the more times you do it, the more flashbacks you're setting yourself up for having. Hence why substance abuse is such a commonality in any sex work void of sexual attraction. And sadly, such emotionless sex work is a commonality in prostituting, being a porn actor, or being a go-go boy.<br />
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When I told a friend about those flashbacks, he suggested that I seek professional help for it. I paused considering it for just a second. Because not to be the media-proposed black male refusing mental health assistance, I realized it was unnecessary for me. For in that revelation to him, and numerous times prior on my social media formats, I realized by that point that I no longer had the flashbacks. I had self-therapized through my writing.<br />
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This is why if you've seen me in recent months at a sex party/backroom as a top, then you've seen me enjoying my bottom <i>for a good while</i>. Not abruptly stopping like I used to, which was before because a memory flash killed my hard-on. Now, such abrupt stopping is because the bottom overdosed on poppers and/or he's a size queen that never does kegels so his hole is too lose to pleasure me.<br />
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With that said, the reason I am growing in my love of sex as I get older is because I no longer have to repress a flashback to that trauma from surfacing. Nor do I have to block out a reaction to one.<br />
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<b><u>I believe in God, but not religion</u></b><br />
Another cause of substance abuse for many gays is because they are trying to repress hearing the anti-gay teachings of their parents and/or religious leaders. If you've read my poem and backstories about the guy I refer to as "<b><a href="https://callingemout.tumblr.com/post/105047179737/poppered-preacher" target="_blank">Poppered Preacher</a></b>", he claimed to love poppers, and do recreational use of meth... He was studying to be a minister when we met. But further proving the hypocrisy of religion, he is actually a minister now.<br />
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Besides him, I have yet to meet a gay male who has close ties to a church or religion who does not partake of some kind of substance abuse, and that includes poppers. This is not to say that it's impossible for one to exist, but it thus far seems extremely rare. The reason for that rarity is because they need to tune out the voices telling them that their love of gay sex is wrong. Like with prostituting, they need to repress the voices, or avoid reaction to them.<br />
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My attempt of belonging to a church to house my belief in God ended with Poppered Preacher. And while I had already come to a point of hearing less of a voice damning me for my love of the male form (heart, mind, body & soul), it really became silenced after he incited me putting <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2015/05/3-nail-sets-building-my-coffin-for.html" target="_blank">that final nail in the coffin of religion</a>.<br />
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So like I've said in that article and many social media posts, I still believe in God. To the point that I will not date a guy who doesn't believe in God. But my belief in God is not confined to me following a religion or church.<br />
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<b><u>I don't play games</u></b><br />
Many gay males play games in their sexual conquest. It's a subconscious overcompensation to give a big "FUCK YOU" to those who said that we are "less than" because we are some level of gay; because we gay males, instead of using our dicks to create children with and give pleasure to the opposite sex, we use our penis (and butts) to give pleasure to another male. In short, being man enough to live that truth. Unfortunately, many of us undo that earned manhood each time we treat each other as disposable entities to proclaim our sexual worth.<br />
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These issues can contribute to anyone of any color as to why they partake of substance abuse during sex. However, there is one thing that can incite substance abuse during sex that I just realized its existence over New Year's. Thereby also realizing the many ways it spares me.<br />
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<b><u>I am not white, or the socially acceptable light-complexioned</u></b><br />
For New Year's, I traveled all the way from NYC to Lancaster, PA to be with <a href="https://www.facebook.com/buddy.reeder" target="_blank">someone</a> who I thought was a friend. A true friend with benefits. He is white, the same age as me, and looked good for his age, so I thought. On the night I arrived, when we were supposed to be having sex, he was doing marijuana, cocaine, <i><b>and</b></i> to my surprise, meth. I will admit that I did partake of the former 2 of the 3. Being true to how I've always said that my sex partner is my only high, my partaking was not out of a "necessity" for a high. It was instead because even though I've had enough experiences to know the answer, I was <i>still</i> wondering if I'm missing something in asking: WHAT IS THE PAY-OFF TO DRUG USE DURING SEX?<br />
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This time around however, I finally realized that while there is <i><u><b>still no pay-off</b></u></i>, I was and always will be missing a trait as to what drives the "necessity" in people like him...<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'm not white.</span> <span style="font-size: large;">Nor am I light-complexioned.</span><br />
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I'm sure you're wondering what that has to do with anything. The fact is that it is naturally ingrained in our DNA that none of us are any better than the other. Especially because of color. However, just about every aspect of the gay community and the media influencing it is run by insecure, racist white males. And they advise every white male to pride themselves on their being white.<br />
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Focus on the colorism within racism, and you also have light-complexioned people of color assuming the same kind of behavior. For I have long said that the racism in the gay community makes the gay community like Pre-Civil Rights Movement America. Where light-complexioned people are given preferential treatment and the preferred color over medium to dark-complexioned people in regards to sex appeal.<br />
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This makes sexual conquest much more obtainable for both white and light-complexioned people. However, as with all things so easily accessible, the people become spoiled. Taking the sex and the person they have acquired for granted. Treating them as disposable entities. That's why in sexually permissive spaces, white and light-complexioned males jump from one person to another way more easily, without the slightest bit of remorse over wasting that person's time. Meanwhile, a medium to darker person of color finds a person of interest, and wants to hold on to them for a bit. Yet to a white/light person willing to take them for granted, they can come off as being overly possessive.<br />
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In any case, being the socially acceptable color can eventually make a white/light person’s easy access to sex become old. Sex will lose its excitement and be nowhere near as stimulating substance-free as it was in their younger days. So they start to believe they need a new sensation to give sex a boost. That new sensation could be from anything from poppers, marijuana, or harder drugs, like cocaine, heroine, or crystal meth. Like in the aforementioned situation I had.<br />
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When I find someone I desire to have sex, I have less of a false sense of being sexual royalty plaguing my mind. I already don't fit the mold simply because I'm Black. But I am not altering my appearance with the intent to fit the racist white porn-induced idea of a "beautiful black male" either. For with my small frame, there's also my refusal to shave my head as a means to remove my African descent. So be my encounter in private or in public, I'M FREE. Your typical white/light male does not have that luxury. If they are not expected to at least be a certain body type, they are <i>always</i> expected to choose a certain color and body type and behave a certain way during sex. In addition to their encounters becoming boring, these added pressures also contributes to the substance abuse during sex.<br />
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This is not to say though that a white/light person can't have the same growing joy of sex that I do. Just as racist imagery makes some black males ignorantly pride themselves on their large penis, white/light males have to stop priding their conquest on their white/light skin. For that is enabling both racism and colorism, to which the karma for anyone of any color is emptiness and loneliness. Even during the act of sex.<br />
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Sex is a natural act, and the pleasure from it is to be obtained naturally. However, you diminish how naturally that pleasure is obtained when you add lack of self-identification, as well as religious ghosts, ego-stroking head games, and attitudes of entitlement to the mix. For all of those things will have you seeking a way to numb your conscience from reacting to them. Then you will have to ask yourself if that pleasure is real. For how actual was that pleasure when the only part you remember is the substance you took to get in the act. Yet you remember little to no specifics of the pleasure itself.<br />
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So the best thing to do is to rid yourself of that mental and emotional baggage to make yourself a better lover, and overall,... a better you. And part of that being a better you is to remember that just because you're getting older, that doesn't mean that the joy of sex has to get old,...and boring.<br />
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In case you don't follow me on social media, I was in a celebratory mood February 9th and 10th. For on February 9, 2002, as soon as I stepped into the (now gone) gay bar Splash, I came out to myself. And a few hours later, after midnight, so it was February 10, 2002, I lost my virginity in a 5-man orgy. So when I learned of the debut of <b>Body Shop NYC</b> being on February 10, 2020, the 18th anniversary of me losing my virginity, I felt I had the perfect place and way to celebrate....<br />
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By getting laid.<br />
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I knew I was in "trouble" before I even got let inside the venue. For on my way there, just steps away from the door, I saw a hot guy walking out. At a quick glance, he resembled the porn stud named Angelo.<br />
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Angelo makes my hole twitch just having a quick mental picture of him as I write this. So imagine what went through my mind seeing a guy that looks slightly like him in the flesh. Adding even more titillation was my peripheral vision catching the guy starting to check me out as I got closer to the venue's door. It took every fiber of my being to not return the glance.<br />
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Because I know me. And I always looks at the big picture. In this case, it was a big picture knowing that if I had returned that glance, and by chance got invited to go elsewhere, you would be reading a review of whether or not that guy laid good pipe, instead of whether or not the hot cakes and sausage selection was any good at Body Shop NYC.<br />
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So yes, I continued on into Body Shop NYC. There were a couple of more guys leaving as I was entering. But I've attended enough sex parties that I didn't lose hope of there being guys to play with. Because even if few were there once I got undressed, I knew that unless you arrive within the last hour, there is often a new wave coming to come. And while the party started at 9:30, but I didn't get out of work until 10:20, making me arrive a little before 11, I was in luck with about 2 1/2 hours left.<br />
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I first did as I always do by taking a stroll through the venue. Even though I've been to the space before for other parties. It was pretty quiet for the moment. Some action was happening, but I was still in the combined mode of decompressing from work and observing the vibe at the party.<br />
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I have grown to distance myself from some parties lately. For I've grown tired of their racist marketing. Making it be that in order for a black male to get laid, one would have to first and foremost focus on him being black, and with just as much vigor, expect him to <a href="https://ovahmag.com/2019/11/bbc/" target="_blank">play the white porn-induced role of aggressive black male with a BBC</a>. That was not the case at<b> Body Shop NYC</b>. I, <i>and everyone else regardless of their color</i> was able to be themselves. Of course there are those who are still stuck on the <a href="https://vimeo.com/296770645" target="_blank">Great Racist Sexpectations</a> that porn has taught them. But I can gladly report that for my encounters, my sexual position did not seem immediately assumed. And if it was, it was allowed to change. Especially pleasing since my encounters were with a Latino and white male.<br />
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So yes, I only had 2 encounters that night. As perpetually horny as I am, I don't need my dick engulfed and/or ass filled the entire time I'm in attendance at a party. I need chemistry. As I said in a recent <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B8W0jVsh8Qv/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link" target="_blank">Instagram post</a>, <b><i>it's not about quantity, but quality</i></b>.<br />
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With the Latino, I bottomed. However, that's <i>after</i> his introduction to me was by giving me a blowjob, which made me think that I was going to be the top. Perhaps the possible change was because of what happens with many versatile and vers/bottoms guys I meet. For between his groping my ass after he had me stand up to give me a blowjob, followed by my cakes in position to satisfy his request to rim me, the sight of my ass might have seduced him to become my top.<br />
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This is not the 1st time such a thing has happened. Hence why I can make that summation. In any case, I welcomed him pounding my ass and my ass causing him to shoot his load.<br />
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With the white guy, I got bold. After a few walks around exchanging glances, my usually shy self actually approached him. He immediately started to suck me off. He had a very nice body, and I rubbed everywhere I could without removing my cock from his mouth. At one point, I went down on him. His cock was so thick. I figured he wanted me to be his top, but based on that last encounter, I let a little more playing happen to know for sure.<br />
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I got my answer when he soon laid on his back for me to top him. After awhile, I needed to change positions because if I kept at him in missionary, I knew I was going to come. So we changed to doggy-style. He was still feeling so good. Enough that I wanted to savor it, so I suggested taking a break. Just before that break, I asked him if he ever topped. He said that he sometimes did. That "sometimes" made it easy to surmise that he was a versatile bottom. So when we met up again, I went down on him some more for him to top me for a quick bit.<br />
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He told me when I first starting topping him that he wanted me to come all over him. With this, I didn't come by fucking. I came by him sucking me off and us jerking each other off. Between the touch of his body, him jerking me, and me jerking myself, all were happening behind each other so quickly and repeatedly that I don't know which I was doing when I shot my load. But I did shoot it on his as he requested.<br />
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<a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ddM2FxcvetA/XkljL0jEKFI/AAAAAAAAQjw/tv5YtUXgGDUSz5Xtb8H3l6fB3UkY6I8cwCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/IMG_20200211_224054714%257E3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="900" height="280" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ddM2FxcvetA/XkljL0jEKFI/AAAAAAAAQjw/tv5YtUXgGDUSz5Xtb8H3l6fB3UkY6I8cwCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_20200211_224054714%257E3.jpg" width="158" /></a>The general idea is that one is considered an adult at the age of 18. And in the journey towards becoming 18, you're becoming closer to where you are able to do everything within the law of the land. Put that thinking towards my becoming sexually active, in which I was a total bottom for the first couple of years, but always knew I would become more and more versatile as my sexual confidence matured. So for the 18th birthday of my being sexually active, I went to Body Shop NYC with the hopes of being versatile. Therefore, this was---- Mission: accomplished.<br />
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Now, mission aside, I enjoyed and recommend Body Shop NYC. As previously stated, I was able to walk in without the marketing of the party defining what I should be because of color, ethnicity, or body type. Why is that so important? It's because having less of such labels and expectations with those labels allows a patron to walk in with much more relaxation. Which in turn during sexual encounters leads to a lot more elation and ejaculation.LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-62383421978120640042020-02-08T15:34:00.001-05:002020-02-11T19:48:38.327-05:00Sex Toy Review: Kiiroo Onyx+Only 20 people received Kiiroo's <b><a href="https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=604955&u=1255476&m=53402&urllink=www%2Ekiiroo%2Ecom%2Fproducts%2Fonyx%2Dplus&afftrack=" target="_blank">ONYX+</a></b> for review, and I'm honored how I got to be one of them.<br />
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Kiiroo's <b>ONYX+</b> is the 3rd version of the Onyx. I had the 1st one. <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2016/07/new-orgasm-exploring-onyx.html" target="_blank">I reviewed as to how it was a new masturbation experience</a> after using my hand for almost 40 years. Since I consciously remember stroking my penis since the age of 9, and the ONYX was the 1st sex toy I've ever owned that mostly did the stroking for me. All I had to do was grind into the toy. So I was eager to see how this version was going to do. Especially since I was still a tad spoiled on the interactive prowess of their vibrating penis toy, <a href="https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1239073&u=1255476&m=53402&urllink=&afftrack=" target="_blank">Titan</a>.<br />
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Note that I mentioned that the Titan is a vibrating penis toy, while all versions of the ONYX actually stroke the penis.<br />
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The <b>ONYX+</b> has 3 modes, Manual, Automatic, and Interactive.<br />
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The <u>manual mode</u> is just that--- manual. By stroking the space between the 2 arrows on top of the device, you can make the pleasure rings stroke along the sleeve however you want. And you can go quite fast since you can get 140 strokes per minutes out of the <b>ONYX+</b>.<br />
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In addition to the Manual mode, the <b>ONYX+</b> also has an <u>automatic mode</u>, which has 4 settin<u>g</u>s. They are called: <u>Full Stroke</u>, <u>Power Up</u>, <u>Handjob</u>, and <u>Storm,</u> and they are exemplified in the video below. I made this and the other video in this review without the sleeve that goes inside the <b>ONYX</b>+ to show the motion the 10 pleasure rings in the device do against the sleeve to please one's penis.<br />
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I saved talking about the best mode for last. The mode that is putting Kiiroo on the map ----<u><i> the interactive mode</i></u>.<br />
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I love searching through the porn videos to see which I can play with my interactive sex toys. And when I find one, I'm all in. For part of what gets me off from my masturbating to porn is not only imagining what the person I'm focusing on is doing to me. I'm also imagining what sensation the person I'm focusing on is feeling.<br />
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Hence why even though I define as a predominately gay bisexual, I watch straight porn more with over 95% of the time focusing on the guy. As I did when testing the <b>ONYX+</b>.<br />
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The reason why is because Pornhub's Interactive category only has straight porn. So what about gay sex toy owners who would like the same joy of interactive during their porn viewing? For them, the way interactive mode might work is by syncing it with some VR porn. For non-VR interactive viewing, I'd suggest choosing the gay channel at FeelMe.com.<br />
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The interactive mode also allows a long-distance play session. You can do so by connecting the <b>ONYX+</b> with another interactive device, like a <b>Fuse, Pearl, </b>another<b> Onyx, </b>or any other Kiiroo toy. This can be with a partner or even a cam model. All can be achieved by a connection through the <b><u>FeelConnect</u></b> app.<br />
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No matter which mode I tested the <b>ONYX+</b>'s prowess with, at least for me, it gave me a number of mini-orgasms before causing the main orgasm and ejaculation. An orgasm with which I could not contain the noise from the ecstasy. That says a lot since my masturbating started so young, I've taught myself well as to how to silence my orgasms.<br />
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Also, the clean-up is quite simple. All one has to do is remove the sleeve to wash it with any body-safe soap or toy cleaner; let it dry; then put it back in the device. It's that simple.<br />
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In closing, let me go back to the interactive and show you just how well the <b>ONYX+</b> syncs with some porn. This video in the following tweet is the one that made me cum. And why wouldn't it? It had me feeling every suck to Ryan Madison, and every fuck as if I was him. And there were no complaints here since I love watching his sexual enthusiasm.<br />
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With all that said, I strongly advise you to get an <b><a href="https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=604955&u=1255476&m=53402&urllink=www%2Ekiiroo%2Ecom%2Fproducts%2Fonyx%2Dplus&afftrack=" target="_blank">ONYX+</a></b> for yourself. IT. IS. AWESOME!<br />
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I have long said that there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about sex with a straight male. Wrongdoing doesn't come until you try making that fantasy become reality by imposing gay advances upon that male professing to be heterosexual when he has shown no evidence of the contrary of his professed sexual orientation.<br />
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So what about straight male porn actors? For with many straight porn actors, there are instances in <b><i>many</i></b> of their histories and performances that expose evidence contrary to their displayed heterosexuality seen on screen. Such as:<br />
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I'm discovering more and more of the straight male porn actors I lust for actually have gay porn in their past. Of those in the above collage, 4 of them are just a few of many. And I'm not talking about a solo jerk-off scene here and there for a gay porn movie or website. No, I'm talking about them doing a full-on sex scene of them giving dick to a male's ass, or taking a male's dick in their ass to the point of busting a nut. Even making intense eye contact during the sex.<br />
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For your average Joe, I've long said that a "straight" guy having gay sex 3 times or more exposes his claim of being 100% straight a complete self-denial. With a straight porn actor who has had gay sex on camera, it's more like 2 times. For with any porn actor, there is a camera on you, can create performance anxiety in a male. So if he can get through such a sexual scenario more than once, those males are bringing upon themselves even more question as to how straight they are.<br />
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<b><u>Double Vaginal or Double Anal Penetration Scenes</u></b><br />
When I initially posted something addressing this topic on Facebook, someone tried to comment that same-sex skin to skin contact does not define sexual orientation. Well, if you're talking about one male putting a hand on another male's bare shoulder or knee, in that regards, that person was correct. However, when you are talking about a male's genitals rubbing or touching another male's private area, like bare dick to dick, bare dick to ass, or bare ass to ass rubbing, any of which having a clear erection present, <b><u><i>that</i></u></b> is when I must strongly disagree.<br />
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And to prove my point, I just discovered the 1st (Oliver Flynn) & 5th (Tyler Steel) male porn actors in <a href="https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5de542626f6fb&t=539" target="_blank">a double-vaginal penetration scene</a>. No limps dicks present.<br />
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For a male of sound mind maintains his penile erection by his penis being engulf by pleasurable materials. So if it's not 100% the texture of a vagina or rectum, then the texture of that other guys penis is adding to his stimulation. And <i>knowing of that other guy's presence</i> makes it clear that those 2 guys are not as heterosexual as they claim to be.<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">If any male in straight porn that you can name displaying these indicators was to ever try to dispute what I'm saying, then that denial should cause one concern. For it means 1) that those male performers are not thinking of their scene partners as human beings; therefore 2) the sex is void of a spiritual connection. And I have stated many times that <i><b><u>any</u></b></i> sexual tryst should have a spiritual connection if it's to be considered a healthy one. Even a one-time tryst, like that in filming a porn scene.</span><b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike><br />
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Some of these male porn actors might not want to be considered bisexual. If so, then perhaps he should consider <a href="https://medium.com/sexedplus/what-the-love-is-a-romantic-orientation-6796943f8d90" target="_blank">an article I applauded on Medium</a>. It stated how while many of us focus on sexual orientation, there is also <u>romantic orientation</u>. I applauded that article because it definitely explains my defining as a predominately gay bisexual. For I am sexually attracted to both males and females, but males way more than females. Add to that how I am strictly romantically attracted to males. I feel these male porn actors in straight porn who display the aforementioned indicators of sexual fluidity might be the exact opposite of myself. Romantically, they are all about females, but sexually a male can spark something in them. How and to what extent that sexual attraction to males manifests itself is his call though.<br />
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Case in point: While it has been some time since I last had my dick inside a cisgendered female's pussy, my attraction to a female is often displayed by me flirting with them. Males in straight porn have an even more available means of release of that sexual attraction. They are put in situations where they get a chance to get that occasional sexual attraction to a male out by way of physical sexual contact with a male.<br />
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With that said however, I do wonder how do the male performers with a gay porn past display that degree of gay after they have stopped doing gay porn. Do they flirt with males like I do females? Are they having tryst with males off-camera and not making it public? Or worse case scenario, are they denying themselves a physical means to satisfy that urge when their body and mind is not made for that satisfaction to be achieved without physical contact? My concern about that scenario is that it can lead to the violence of gay-for-pay porn actors that I addressed 11 years ago in "<a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2008/02/denied-self-becomes-violent-self.html" target="_blank">Denied Self Becomes Violent Self</a>".<br />
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In any case, my lusting eyes is hoping for the former.LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-16699370663807816562019-12-23T11:10:00.000-05:002020-01-25T18:18:21.568-05:00Nude Dude Review - Atom/Plus<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-83654388999267059042019-12-04T12:29:00.001-05:002019-12-04T13:00:17.623-05:00Sex Toy Review: Fun Factory Manta<div>
My favorite non-interactive vibrating sex toy, actually combination, for penile stimulation of the glans and shaft has always been a Magic Wand Rechargeable with a Hummingbird attachment. So much so that it is also featured in <a href="https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/a-hummingbird-rides-a-magic-wand-30372711" target="_blank">one of my XTube videos</a>. But sometimes one would like something <i>smaller and quieter</i> for such stimulation. With that said, I was glad to see when Fun Factory introduced <b><a href="https://us.funfactory.com/en/men-toys/manta/" target="_blank">The Manta</a></b>.<br />
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The one thing one could easily conclude, and be right to do so, would be that the Manta is not as strong as The Magic Wand. Of course, you would be correct. Because the bigger the toy, the much higher probability of the bigger the motor. However, that doesn't mean that bigger is better.<br />
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For the Manta has a lot of features that allows it to in some ways outdo the Magic Wand and Hummingbird combo. Such as;<br />
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<li>The Manta has more settings (6 speeds, 6 vibrations), while the Magic Wand Rechargeable has 4 speeds and 4 vibrations, and;</li>
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The smaller size of the Manta also makes it good to assist with blowjobs and even intercourse. If your partner's penis is longer than you can fully take in, you can use the <b>Manta</b> to stimulate the part of his penis that your body orifice (mouth, vagina, or ass) cannot take. And even if that is not an issue, the Manta's vibration traveling to its flexible wings can cup and stimulate the balls.<br />
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With me being unlike most known sex toy reviewers, I do occasionally make videos to demonstrate the sex toy. Luckily for you, this is one of those times. And you'll notice that I don't keep the Manta in the standard perceived direction of being under the shaft. I turn it around to switch up the stimulation, and lessen the boredom.<br />
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I hope you'll try the same when you get yours. Because I definitely recommend the <b>Manta</b>.<br />
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LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-12574014181866043212019-12-02T09:55:00.000-05:002020-02-29T11:40:35.578-05:00Sex Toy Review: Tenga Flip Orb Strong<br />
<a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-byd8l2qbjCI/XeSgsHkqRFI/AAAAAAAAQQI/fuZlO1oqJYU5iHC5faXsTectI7eYW6g7gCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/20191118_133516%257E2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-byd8l2qbjCI/XeSgsHkqRFI/AAAAAAAAQQI/fuZlO1oqJYU5iHC5faXsTectI7eYW6g7gCLcBGAsYHQ/s400/20191118_133516%257E2.jpg" width="298" /></a>I recently got on <b>Tenga</b>'s mailing list of sex toy reviewers. So I now get notified when they have a new sex toy up for review. Take that plus my history of reviewing a number of their masturbation sleeves to positive reviews, it is only right to surmise that I would be quick to request the <b>Flip Orb Strong</b> when they notified me about it. Even though the email made me aware that it is not available here in the United States.<br />
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With that said, I was by no means disappointed. But I was surprised. For <b>Flip Orbs</b> are one of the least complicated designs in the Flip series. However, the pleasure it gives is still mind-blowing.<br />
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I say that to confess that when I do a standard masturbation of jerking off, I can often orgasm in a low volume that no roommates notice, or no sound at all. However, from the <a href="https://vimeo.com/82555332" target="_blank">Flip Hole Black</a> in my 1st Nude Dude Review, to the <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2019/08/sex-toy-review-tenga-spinner.html" target="_blank">Spinner</a>, the orgasms I get from Tenga toys have always made a sound-filled orgasm hard to contain.<br />
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And now I must add the <b>Flip Orb Strong</b> to that list.<br />
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Those elastomer-covered orbs rubbing against the shaft and head of the penis takes you to the great sensations one comes to know with Tenga male masturbation sleeves. And while the orbs are of course the main draw, the grooved walls also made of elastomer definitely help in making the Tenga Flip Orb Strong give great sensations.<br />
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As with all Tenga masturbation toys, I recommend using a water-based lube to help your back and forth motion be the another great Tenga ride. Followed by a cleaning with a water rinse, or for those like myself who feel more secure with it, use a good anti-bacterial toy cleaner or body-safe soap to clean.<br />
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Going back to my disclaimer, if you are an American reader and this review makes you want the Flip Orb Strong accessible here in the U.S., then my best advice to you is to try using the Supply & Demand law of economics to your advantage. For it is quite likely that Tenga will <i>supply</i> this great sex toy to the U.S. if the knowledge and curiosity becomes in great enough <i>demand</i>.<br />
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I, for one, feels this toys deserves worldwide distribution.<br />
<br />LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-82914528036623515692019-11-30T08:43:00.002-05:002019-11-30T08:43:47.363-05:00The DISrespect of "BBC" for OVAH! MagIn case you didn't already know, in addition to this blog, I also guest blog for 3 others: <b>Kiiroo</b>, <b>Thotyssey</b>, and now, <b><a href="https://ovahmag.com/author/lenairxavier/" target="_blank">OVAH! Mag</a></b>.<br />
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My recent submission to OVAH! Mag is the very important and quite under-discussed topic of a black male being referred to as "BBC". It is under-discussed for a malicious reason, and my article examines why among other negatives regard that terminology.<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If you follow me on any form of social media, then you know that I have made it no secret of my great disdain for <b>poppers</b>. Well, it is one thing to have a disdain for something, but it becomes a stance of arrogance to refuse an in depth explanation for that stance.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Once at The Pleasure Chest, they had a sex-ed skill-share for people wanting to be sex educators. One of the required task was to make a 10-minute presentation on a sexual topic, to which other participants gave criticisms on your presentation. The topic I chose was <strong class="markup--strong markup--p-strong">“Popper-Free Anal Sex”</strong>. And while I took most of the criticism well, and was actually self-aware enough to know, one criticism was substance-abuse enabling, and capitalism-driven for a sex retail space willing to sell poppers.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I was told that my calling partakers of poppers ignorant was me shaming them.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I’m sorry, but I am supposed to think that I said something wrong? For I pride myself on seeing the big picture on a matter before speaking publicly about it. Plus, when I say anything against poppers, I am talking to <strong class="markup--strong markup--p-strong"><em class="markup--em markup--p-em">adults</em></strong>. Adults who should know better than to intentionally hold a bottle mere millimeters away from their noses to sniff. Especially since that bottle houses amyl nitrates — a chemical that if ingested any more directly (like swallowing) can result in immediate (and possibly fatal) harm to the body. Such as this doctor’s quote <a class="markup--anchor markup--p-anchor" data-href="https://www.vice.com/en_nz/article/3k5j3y/are-poppers-cooking-your-brain?fbclid=IwAR3cKGV3zpmrKBK-8y_bRpAsb4YEeSTXhoXhMc8uaYjlyB79EFQtY4Q63tQ" href="https://www.vice.com/en_nz/article/3k5j3y/are-poppers-cooking-your-brain?fbclid=IwAR3cKGV3zpmrKBK-8y_bRpAsb4YEeSTXhoXhMc8uaYjlyB79EFQtY4Q63tQ" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank">from a <strong class="markup--strong markup--p-strong">Vice</strong> article</a> shows:</span></div>
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<span style="color: #990000; font-family: inherit;">“It is not thought that amyl leads to many long-term issues, but there are some short-term risks,” Dr Boylan says. “It is possible to develop an allergic reaction over time. Another rare but serious complication is methaemoglobinaemia, which means the blood becomes unable to carry oxygen. This can be life threatening, and it happens when a person swallows rather than inhales poppers.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Am I really supposed to coddle adults who should have the common sense to figure out just a smidgen of this information?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Take note that the person who accused me of shaming was a cis female. She does not live with seeing this ignoring of common sense repeated in her community ad nauseum. Unlike me, who sees it repeatedly since the gayness in my bisexuality has me way more so in the gay male community. Hence why I made it my topic for that event.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I feel no wrong in shaming in this instance. For if a parent is any degree worthy of the title of “parent”, then there are instances in which teaching the difference between right and wrong requires shaming you for doing the wrong. Plus what other choice does one have when common sense is often met by many popper users with an addict's aggression to defend their drug of choice. So real educators, ones not marionetted by corporate bottom lines are left to pick up where too many "gay parents" have fucked up.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My dislike of poppers is more about me wanting what every person engaging in sexual intercourse should want — — to be the center of my sex partner’s attention.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If I’m to share my sex partner’s focus, I want it to be with another human being if we’re having group sex. I don’t like the idea of sharing that focus... with a <i>bottle?</i> A bottle as much as 35 times shorter than me and containing a harmful substance. So the frustration that has come through much of what I’ve written about poppers over time is my concern as to why more gay males don’t want the same for themselves. And gay males are already prone to self-esteem issues as an oppressed community. So the use of poppers in my eyes becomes an acting out over those issues.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Furthermore, when one encourages another to use them, they are encouraging that person to follow a path that is counterproductive to the ongoing fights for 1)being gay, and; 2) having anal sex considered a healthy sexual practice to celebrate sexuality.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I come at this matter with such veracity because I’ve been masturbating since I was about 10 years old. Eventually I realized that fondling of myself was me introducing my body to sexual stimulation. Well, from the pleasures I got from that fondling, then playing with my butt hole once I discovered gay male sex was usually anal, I felt if those pleasant sensations were so much as an inkling of what actual sexual intercourse felt like, then I wanted <span class="markup--em markup--p-em"><i>nothing</i></span>, <span class="markup--em markup--p-em"><i><b>nothing</b></i></span>, <strong class="markup--strong markup--p-strong"><em class="markup--em markup--p-em"><u>NOTHING</u></em></strong> to interfere with my brain receiving the messages of how much pleasure I was feeling. Nor did I want anything to interfere with me remembering what exactly I did to my body to achieve that pleasure, so I can pass on that information to my sex partner(s) if need be. Or who gave that pleasure to me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I personally get highly offended when I either see online profiles of guys claiming how they “can suck dick all day by doing poppers”, or seeing the actual action at a sex party/backroom by a guy on his knees sucking every dick around him and interrupting his suck with a huff of poppers. What offends me is how such a guy is lying to himself about his love of oral sex. Anyone who claims to “need” poppers to better their endurance of oral sex is telling themselves a lie.</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">For I love giving blowjobs. If you put 5 hot guys in front of me with their dicks out, I’ll suck on their dicks so long that my jowls might look like those of Kanye West by the end of it. And I don’t need to huff on poppers to suck on them that long. My love of sucking dick, those guys’ sex appeal, and my ego about my oral prowess is all the drive I need.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I’m sure some feel that I owe no one this explanation. After all, the term “poppers” alone is illegal is some places because it shows illegal intent to use amyl nitrates by huffing. Even XTube is aware of this fact. Hence why I had to change the title in the description for my XTube video embedded in “<strong class="markup--strong markup--p-strong"><a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2015/08/popperswe-dont-need-no-stinkin-poppers.html" target="_blank">Poppers! We Don’t Need No Stinkin’ Poppers!</a></strong>” For XTube has outlawed the use of the word “poppers” on their site. Even if the purpose of the word is to eradicate poppers itself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">However, what motivates me to give this explanation is because poppers have so heinously infiltrated the gay male community, it is seeping into the anal sex lives of straight people as well… But by the misleading advice of gay males who were advised by the misled before them. So it is an ugly passing of a spiked baton showing that this substance abuse is an epidemic. One that a detailed explanation of one’s adversity to poppers might be one of the last stitch efforts to eradicate this interference to our anal-sex-loving lives.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">With all this, am I bragging? In order to get the message through, YES.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">So join me so that I will have no reason or right to brag. For doing such great sexual feats will instead become for all of us in the anal sex-loving community, a common place statement of being. Thereby making bragging become wasted breath. But right now, my bragging is still necessary.</span></div>
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What makes a man "sex personified"?<br />
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Well, before I give my answer, to prove that my including myself in the above collage is not me being arrogant thinking I'm all that, <span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">let me recall what happened to me to make me consider the reality of such a thing, and start seeing it in others.</span><br />
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Way back when the NYC gay bar/club Splash was around, one night I was as usual, dancing alone. Still celebrating my being out. It might have been about a year before I got into porn. Anyway, this cute European guy comes to the dancefloor with 2 females. As much as I wanted to stare and hopefully make eye contact, I didn't try <i>because</i> he was with the 2 females.<br />
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You see, I don't try to court guys at <span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">a bar/club known for hook-ups </span>when I know they are with friends. That's because it is often the case that they are either looking out for the friends, or following the lead of the friends. Which in turn makes those friends become the <i><u>biggest cock-blockers</u></i>. And this instance might not have been any different.<br />
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For as I said, I was dancing all by myself. He was with the females about 4 - 6 ft. away. Then my peripheral vision saw him starting to approach me. I was hoping that this was him making the 1st move. Once he got right by me, I turned to look directly at him. He then initiated speaking by saying...<br />
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"YOU ARE SEX! You're like,...", while looking me up and down as in awe, he concluded by saying, "...the whole thing! You are just so beautiful. I had to say that to you."<br />
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I smiled and thanked him, and then he just simply turned around and went back to the 2 females he came in with. Never saying another word to me. So I'm left standing there thinking, "Uh,... what the fuck just happened?"<br />
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Because he left me so bewildered, I never took what he said to heart. I just thought of him as a drunk Euro boy who made himself dismissable by being drunk. Then things started to happen in my life to make me more aware of my sex appeal. <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px;">Things that made me have to wonder... why did he just break from his group like that, say those words to me, then walk away? In his eyes, was my beauty, or my aura that striking that it compelled him to do that? If there is any truth to the saying, "a drunk man's words are a sober man's truth", then the answer is YES. And there have been numerous instances since confirming it.</span><br />
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Such as while I was an extra on Michael Lucas' "Dangerous Liaisons", some of the pornstars kept looking over at me. I was standing far enough away from people that there was no way to confuse myself as to where they were looking, or who they were looking at.... Except maybe behind me. So I turned around to look. All to have to say to myself, "Nope, no one there. So their eyes <i>are</i> on YOU!"<br />
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Or as I wrote a few years ago about how I'll go to sex parties where all the guys there are being wallflowers. However, when I finally find someone to my liking, and have sex with them, then the wallflowers stop being wallflowers. To the extent that I have witnessed guys who were wallflowers simultaneously when I arrived start having sex with each other.<br />
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And even today, I will get on the bus or train, and walk in the door to see sometimes males, sometimes females, and sometimes both... stop and stare at me in adoration. Or see a guy being arm and arm with his girlfriend or wife. As I'm in my spot listening to music, reading a book, or just being to my thoughts, I'll suddenly feel eyes on me. Then in my peripheral vision, I'll discover that those eyes on me... are from the guy from the straight couple.<br />
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He'll be looking me up and down. Making a full assessment of me from head to toe. Then out of guilt, start a public display of affection with his female partner. OR his woman will start some PDA knowing good and darn well that she'll never confront him about checking out a man.<br />
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As stated before, this is not me being arrogant. This is just me being observant of people's actions around me, and when I've unsuspectedly have become involved in those actions. Plus, if I was arrogant about this, I wouldn't me willing to admit and admire that there are others who seem to have that same kind of presence.<br />
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The presence that makes a man (or woman) sex personified. Someone having a sexual aura that makes sexuality come to the forefront of many minds as soon as that person walks into a space. Consuming the admirer to the point that the admirer considers crossing their <i>taught</i> boundaries of color, ethnic preference, or even their degree of straight or gay.<br />
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It is a reality, and that is where the poem "Sex Personified" is born from.<br />
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<script src="https://player.vimeo.com/api/player.js"></script><br />LeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-64186187168346073632019-10-02T18:37:00.000-04:002019-10-02T18:37:04.895-04:00Imagining I'm Riding Thunder's Wood<div style="text-align: center;">
This is the tweet from <b>Thunder Woods</b> that started it all:</div>
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Thunder Woods and I have been following each other on Twitter for a good while now. The cum pig that I am has been enjoying all of the jerk & cumshot videos he's been posting with many of his tweets, including the aforementioned tweet. In fact, the way that tweet started it all is because from that angle, I realized how much his cock was shaped like the <b>Neo Elite</b> from <b>Blush Novelties</b> that I own. Here this tweet I posted in response and his response that followed:</div>
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Such as using my using my double-sided suction cup from <b>NY Toy Collectiv</b>e to attached the Neo Elite dildo to a <b>We-Vibe</b> Wish. A trick that can be done with just about any dildo with a base to turn a non-vibrating dildo into a vibrating one. The difficult part became trying to stuff the Wish into my <b>Liberator</b> Bon Bon. But I got it in, then I got that dildo in me.... While watching one of Thunder Wood's cumshot videos.<br />
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Every sex toy reviewer has a process as to how they go about reviewing a sex toy. Some do it solo. Some do it with a partner, which works best when the toy is marketed to and can only be used effectively for review purposes by a couple. However, since most sex toys are made for masturbation and foreplay, reviewing a sex toy alone is the best. Primarily because it eliminates focusing on a partner's pleasure, which can be a distraction if that partner is not the test subject. Reviewing it alone makes you the sole collector of the information, therefore better focused on the details to help readers and viewers of the review.<br />
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I revealed details of my review process before in a couple of posts. Namely when I reviewed the <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2018/11/nude-dude-review-kiiroo-titan-test.html" target="_blank">Kiiroo Titan</a>, and most recently when reviewing <a href="http://www.tresx-rayvision.com/2019/09/sex-toy-review-we-vibe-vector.html" target="_blank">We-Vibe's Vector</a>. This gave me the idea for you readers to see if possible the exact videos I have used for my review. Hence this post from my Facebook page:<br />
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So now there is <a href="https://www.pornhub.com/playlist/122017111" target="_blank">a playlist on my <b>Pornhub</b> account</a> featuring as many videos as I could find that I have used to masturbate to for my sex toy reviews. And yes, for various reasons, be it the studios, scenario, or porn actor's habits, some criteria in the video go against what I stand for. So the way I'm able to watch them is by following the rules of my poem "<a href="https://thotyssey.wordpress.com/2019/05/26/x-rayed-sex-when-i-masturbate/" target="_blank">When I Masturbate</a>". Using my imagination to think of those criteria being more up to my level or synonymous with my traits.<br />
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So click on the "link between the teasing gifs "Sex For Toy Testing" and see the scene those gifs are made from and more to get deeper into my sex toy review process. You'll see what along with the sex toy contributed to my orgasm.<br />
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