A FeelMe Weekend

In a post for Kiiroo, I wrote about why I believe there are so few gay interactive/virtual reality porn sites. The 2 main reasons I stated was because 1) the producers of such porn are targeting the wrong part of the gay male population. They are targeting tops when they should be targeting bottoms more, which is difficult to do when; 2) there are really no toys (as far as I knew at the time) that were anal-safe at the time of purchase. Well, I have just been proven wrong on this.

After all of this time writing for Kiiroo, I never fully explored their FeelMe.com website. In light of the aforementioned post for Kiiroo, I did. Nothing changed about my reasoning as to why there are so few gay VR sites. It did however change the number of videos I have access to for my straight porn consumption. It also increased the number of toys I can use for that straight porn viewing.

Some time back, via Twitter, I saw Kiiroo post about them joining with We-Vibe on a project. The most info I could get at the time was that the possibility of them incorporating the technology to make the Kiiroo Pearl into a We-Vibe Nova, which I listed as a sex toy marketed for females but can be used my males in a post for Thotyssey. I thought that news meant a new toy was on the way. Which would be great because as I said in my Nude Dude Review of the We-Vibe Nova, with its clitoral stimulator acting as the base every anal toy needs, I originally reviewed it for The Pleasure Chest website as a prostate massager.

Well, it turns out that a incorporating that technology into a We-Vibe Nova leading to a new toy was only somewhat true. In actuality, the We-Vibe Nova (as well as all of the other We-Vibe toys meant for some internal use) have more features because they are able to be used with many (if not all) of the websites listed on FeelMe.com.

If you follow or have friended me on Facebook, your might recall this post:

For this reason, and my recent discovery of FeelMe.com, I was beating off like a fiend to their straight porn selection that weekend that featured these 3 studs:

I've had a thing for Nick Jacobs ever since I first saw his body and that thick dick in a StraightGuysForGayEyes video some years ago. So I couldn't resist watching a video featuring him on the Playgirl channel.

I also went back to Pornhub to check a video I had seen there before that worked with my Kiiroo Onyx. It featured another straight porn actor I'm in lust with, Mr. Pete. I can't resist that still gorgeous face, still slim body, uncut dick, nice butt, and his lust for women of many colors. I was pleased to discover that the We-Vibe Nova worked with that site as well. The only drawback (if you can call it that) was me feeling vibrations in my ass from the We-Vibe Nova when Mr. Pete's dick was getting stroked or sucked on because as I stated in the aforementioned Kiiroo post, most interactive videos are made for use with the penetrating male in mind. Therefore, such videos are programmed with the intent of being in sync with a sex toy like a Kiiroo Onyx.

Such is not the case when I went back to FeelMe.com and paid for a subscription to FeelPorna. The video I tried there was made definitely programmed for use with a Kiiroo Pearl, or any We-Vibe toy.

It featured Emilio Ardana in a straight porn video, which is what he's known for. However, to some of you, he might look more familiar than the other aforementioned males from straight porn because Emilio has done gay porn. I don't know if there are other sites he's worked for, but he has definitely a few scenes for MenAtPlay under the name "Caleb Roca".

As I watched the video in sync with the We-Vibe Nova, because of the vibration going through the part meant for clitoral stimulation as well as the shaft, any playing he did with Susy Gala's pussy, I felt. Even his eating her out and flicking her clit with his tongue. So with a We-Vibe Nova, Emilio licking her clit sent a vibration to my taint that went all the way to my prostate.

If I knew that I was going to have this much new-found fun with my We-Vibe Nova, I might have recorded it. Then again, it probably would have wound up being like my hook-ups with a fuck-buddy of mine. I keep telling myself to record us together, but I get so into putting my cock in his ass that I forget all about the existence of my phone to record us. In these cases, I got so into the sensation of the We-Vibe Nova in my ass and being in sync with the porn that recording the bliss would have taken too much time of my attention.

With this pleasuring weekend, I had to work on Sunday, but felt great going to work. Then when I got home, I played some more, so I was right as rain by Monday. So much so that I was more motivated than ever to produce the Nude Dude Review of the We-Vibe Nova. So yes, besides a number of orgasms and sprays of my jizz, something you can actually see resulted from that fun FeelMe Weekend.

Nude Dude Review - We-Vibe Nova

I know it's been months since my last Nude Dude Review. Well, I hope this delay gives you a review of the We-Vibe Nova that won't disappoint your ears, your body,....or your eyes. ;-)

Who Is My Message of Resistance at The Pleasure Chest For?

NYC's Gay Pride was yesterday. I spent the day working with The Pleasure Chest as part of their street team. Handing out paint paddles, fans, condoms, and buttons.

Before that, we wrote names of LGBTQ inspirations and messages of resistance. I chose to do a message of resistance, much like the one I did on the window of the Upper East Side location.

I'm sure most names of inspirations and messages of resistance will at the most cause a fellow member of the LGBT community to in some way scream "YAAASSS!", with little chance of an anti-LGBT pedestrian even looking up to see the message to put them on notice. And such a more out gay presence near the West Village location, I chose to write the message:

RESIST RACISM, AGEISM, SEXISM

It is a message that might not only make a fellow member of the LGBT community scream the aforementioned, but more so stop them in their tracks and make them see a mirror. A mirror they might not want to look in.

For that look at themselves might show how supporters of this country's present shit-show of a presidential administration are not the only ones exhibiting behaviors that need messages of resistance. Sad to say, but members of the LGBT community itself are also culprits.

If you don't think so, then please read on...

RACISM Almost every LGBT hero and/or sex symbol we are bombarded with is white. Or they are a light person of color that gay media uses to claim they are not racist when in fact they are. Even though there are plenty of medium to dark people of color who have accomplished just as great (or better) a feat, or been just as great (or even stronger) a voice.

As I have stated in the past, Queerty and  Instinct is such a perpetrator of this, and has gotten so cowardly in facing those who follow my lead in calling them out on it, they both have blocked me from commenting.

Also, most recently, the racial insensitivity to Philadelphia's unveiling of a gay flag including the colors of black and brown makes those white and assimilating people of color who claim to be anti-Trump to be the biggest of hypocrites. Ones whose souls are at a level of disgust that there are no words to describe how deplorable they make their existence. This is not to say that I didn't have my own feelings about it, but it was nothing compared to the racial insensitivity and selling out that I saw online from our own.

AGEISM The ageism in the LGBT community is also deplorable. For why is it immediately assumed when I walk into a gay bar, that because I'm over 30 that I'm to buy a 20-something a drink? Why do porn companies like Icon Male and Naked Sword prey upon the maladjustment of many gay males' daddy issues by sexualizing them, being one of those inciting those 20-somethings to make a fetish out of me for my age. Porn has done that to me enough for the color of my skin. I don't need porn doing it to me because of my age as well.

Also, why is it that when a model call is put out that as good as I and others 30+ have maintained themselves, we are denied the gig simply because of our age. Yet some of us have the looks, stamina, and discipline to get the job done better than the white/light 20-somethings hired?

Case in point with an example that compounds both ageism and racism.- There have been many nights when I've go-go danced in my 40s, and didn't stop dancing for 1.5 - 2 hours after I started. Meanwhile, many of these young white go-go boys today act so entitled that they get on the dancing box for 5 - 10 minutes, and then they disappear, and are hired again.

SEXISM The sexism in the LGBT community is also out of control. For there is no excuse for a female to be questioned about her presence in a male-dominated gay bar when she is with her gay best friend. Or when she is being so civilized, you wouldn't notice her unless you stood next to her, and/or she politely said "Hello". Yet, there are many gay males who get their knickers in a ball-crunching twist when she is civilized.  I know many females come in with their overcompensating flamboyant male friends. But let the female show themselves before judging them. The same way you don't want to be judge based on the behavior of a few bad seed gay males in our community.

This sexism also translates into transphobia. The kind of transphobia that makes transgender people not tell you they are transgender until after the fact. Such as the instance I spoke of in my Thotyssey post, "X-Ray Sex: The Transgender Surprise".


So you see, the message of resistance is not only necessary to be addressed to the racism, sexual assaults, misogyny, and narcissism that presently runs our country. It also needs to be addressed to ourselves. And it's a reason why there are gays considering strapping themselves into some form of a "Conversion Therapy Horror Chair".