Ban _ _ Often Outside Of Porn

The 2 blanks in the title are not for 2 letters, but actually 2 words...Pulling Out.

This may seem odd coming from me, since I have so often professed how much I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the sight of healthy natural fluids like cum and piss shooting out of a man's dick. I even wrote a blog entry about it for my "Getting Out The Kinks" category. It is for that reason that I had to choose the title of this post carefully. 

Don't get me wrong! Nothing has changed! I still like seeing a guy shoot a big load of cum and letting it with its warmth land on my body, and if he shoots it on himself, depending on how well I know him, I might lick it off him. Or we go into the bathroom, get in the tub, piss on each other, then fuck like savages using the piss as lube. Hence why I like to have sex with a good fuck more than once. If it's a one-night-stand, I like to fuck at least twice - once with the top coming while still inside the bottom, and the other with the top shooting his jizz outside the ass he's fucking.

Now, why do I want to ban pulling out often outside of porn? It's because just as I find it unnatural for there to be a barrier between a man and his partner (but in this age of HIV/AIDS, we must consider it), I also find it unnatural for a man to be having anal or vaginal sex, and ejaculate outside of his sexual partner. I feel the male in the active role should not have to think about pulling his cock out of the person in the passive role. First of all, it denies the person in the passive role the pleasure of feeling that cock throb as it let's loose that sexual tension. More importantly, I believe that this is an indicator that whichever partner decides the male in the active role should pull out is a lousy lover. Because that partner causes a break in the physical connection before the sex is complete.

If a constant sex partner like a husband, boyfriend, or fuck-buddy pulls out to enjoy the view once in awhile, then it's not a bad thing. However, be it a constant partner or a one-night-stand, a guy who ALWAYS pulls out his dick to cum is a guy who watches too much porn, therefore lacking in individuality.

I say all this from the prospectives of both the top and bottom. If I do an entire sex session as a top, I don't feel the sex to be complete unless I cum while inside the bottom. And as a bottom, I don't feel the sex to be complete unless we've had at least one round where the top cums while inside me.

When I bottom, I sooooo wish that I could put a camera in my ass like whichever women put one in their pussies in order to make the cumshots in this video. It would get me off even more so to see and feel my partner's body, then one move of my eyes and/or head to a video monitor in the room, and seeing what my top's cock looks like going back and forth from inside my ass, then seeing his cock shoot a load, be the jizz filling up a condom or spewing man-milk into my ass tunnel.

Like I said, I LOVE nature. And ejaculation is a part of nature. I also feel that where you ejaculate is a part of nature as well. So unless you're doing a porn shoot, I believe you should make most of your ejaculations from anal and/or vaginal sex happen while your dick is wrapped in the warmth of either an embracing ass tunnel or a tight, wet pussy.

Now, whether or not you wear a condom with that ejaculation, being that you're an adult, I won't preach to you on that decision. That is up to you.

FOR PLAYING INFORMED IS PLAYING SEXY. ;-)