Many things in the gay community dictate the perceptions and sexpectations we gay males have of one another. Based on everything from our skin color, age, exhibitionism level, sexual orientation, etc.
The problem is... many of them lead to life as a lonely single gay male, using certain sexual exploits to overcompensate.
Unfortunately, the main influencers to this problem among us are once again, gay media, porn, and nightlife. For our straight parents can't tell us what it means to be a gay male. Add to that how many running outlets of those aforementioned gay sources tell you to do away with even the decent principles your straight parents taught you, you will then end up with gay males having ignorant and limiting outlooks.
Sadly, they will always be the main contributors to this problem until a complete overhaul is done. One that adds new blood to surge through the veins of these influential sources. New blood from those who are more self-assured, ethical, non-racist, therefore more representational of our country's rainbow of skin color. When that happens the relevance of poems like "Sexual Narrow Mind" will no longer be.
Sexual Narrow Mind from LeNair Xavier on Vimeo.