Sunday Afternoon @ The Bijou

Yesterday, I went to The Bijou for Daniel Nardicio’s new Sunday afternoon event there. I got there in time to catch a peek at RuPaul’s movie STARBOOTY, which seems like it’s going to be very funny, so I’m looking forward to getting a copy when the DVD comes out on October 30th.

Afterwards, before the main feature, CALIGULA, there was a trailer for Dark Alley Media’s upcoming controversial film, PASSIO. Now, many of you may know that I am a God-believing man, so this movie may seem hard for me to take. But I have to confess, I may have to get a copy of this one because that trailer looked incredibly hot and made me incredibly horny. Maybe it has something to do with how those religious paintings I saw growing up always gave me a guilt-ridden arousal with their display of nearly naked men, and PASSIO looks like those pictures come to life. Especially Danny Fox with his erect cock and hot booty bump on his nice, sweaty, and gorgeous bod seen in right profile. Now if you don’t know how I love wet hot bods, find out here. I thought I was going to have to slip out and beat my meat just by watching the trailer. Imagine the guilty pleasure it’s going to be for me if I see the whole movie.

Once CALIGULA started, I watched to see how controversial a movie it was for its time. The beginning looks R-rated, so I was wondering that the controversy I had heard about this movie was all about. I didn’t watch the whole movie from beginning to end. I had stopped at one point to check out the rest of the Bijou, and also to take part in their drawing class featuring a nude model from Rentboy.com. But what I did see later on in the film was definitely something that surprised me. I didn’t expect to see actual penetration, but there it was – dicks sliding in and out of pussies and mouths. There was even a cumshot during a blowjob. I was wondering if it was real or fake, because the guy’s cock was still in her mouth during the cumshot. So it could have been just some liquid they made up to look like cum, and even if it was that was an extreme move to show that for it’s time. Heck all these years later, what was seen in SHORTBUS is considered extreme.

And speaking of SHORTBUS, who did I see during the drawing class but “The Jamies”, P.J. Deboy and Paul Dawson who was sitting right next to me. And the Rentboy who was our drawing subject was pornstar Dimitri Santiago.

The drawing class was the part of this event that I was looking forward to the most. As some of you may know, I draw as well. That is of course how I designed my jacket in my gallery “Tré by Tré”, so drawing is not a problem for me. The problem that I needed the practice for was my drawing an actual body, and even more practice was needed by me to draw a face. I have drawn my own face in the past, and even designed a shirt based on a song I wrote some years ago using a singer’s face from a CD cover and adding details to it. But like I said it’s been awhile, and I’ve been thinking about doing some erotic drawings lately, so I needed this to get in the practice of drawing physiques. I think I did OK, but I’m looking forward to doing better next time. See for yourself.

Watching Dimitri pose took me back a year ago when I modeled at the Tom of Finland Erotic Art Fair. And with his last pose putting me directly in line with him, I was trying my best to not make him self-conscious while I focus on his facial features like his eyes, eyebrows, and nose. And when he asked for a suggested position, I didn’t want to say anything that would be hard to hold, because I remember how holding a pose seemed easy at first, but when you least expect it, your muscles feel like they are going to give way.

During the last 2 poses I definitely had the best seat in the house according to my personal taste. This drawing is of the 3rd pose, and being the butt-man that I am, you know I was as happy as a pig in slop to have his booty bump directly in front of me. So as far as I’m concerned, anyone with a spot to the right of mine that ends up directly behind him was someone I considered lucking out on getting a good viewing spot.
Well, they say “practice makes perfect” so I’m going to try and be there next week, but with the Gay Erotic Expo coming this weekend, I may have to put off my next chance to practice until the following week. Either way, I must say THANKS Daniel for coming up with another great idea.

Porno Bingo, Cheer NY, and Me

THANK YOU to all of you who came out Wednesday night to Will Clark’s PORNO BINGO. Everyone there really helped it to be a become a fun night for me. But for a moment, it didn’t look like it would be contributing much beyond my presence.

The movie “69 Fuck Street” came out at the end of July, so with the night for my scheduled appearance at Porno Bingo was nearing, around the end of August, I sent an email to Owen Hawk at Dark Alley Media to try to get copies. Now, if you recall, “69 Fuck Street” is by Man-Size by Private, but I was cast into the movie by Dark Alley Media, who was a sub-contractor for the movie. I waited a couple of days, and got no response, which worried me because when I usually email Owen on business matters, I have always in the past got a quick response. But all wasn’t lost I thought because I also had Dark Alley’s Marketing Director James Ian’s email address, so I contacted him. The next day, I got a call from Pure Play Media, the distributor of Man-Size by Private, saying that James forwarded my email to them, and that got the ball rolling. Once I heard their willingness to help, I began to rest easy, knowing that I owe James a big THANK YOU for forwarding my email to Pure Play Media.

All the stuff from Pure Play Media took longer than expected to get to me. So I sent emails and phone calls to check on the progress, and everything became straightened out. I will admit that I at one point became so frazzled that the last time I called them on September 26th, they gave me a tracking number to check on the shipment online, and when I went to the website, it turned out the package was to arrive on September 27th. So if I had just waited a day, I wouldn’t have been on the verge of freaking out. So THANKS Pure Play Media for the goodies, and putting up with my neurosis.

When Will Clark asked me to pick a night to be guest-caller at Porno Bingo, I saw on the list he gave me all the beneficiaries, and Cheer NY at the time was not confirmed. I told him if Cheer NY get confirmed for October 10th, then that’s the night I do it. I felt they deserved that due to how the Porn Actor who was the guest-caller on the night they were the beneficiary behaved. He wasn’t an ass. He just wasn’t professional about his appearance. He had his boyfriend with him, and that’s fine. BUT when you are making an appearance, you need to make yourself accessible to the crowd even if you have your significant other and friends accompanying you, and he didn’t. He stayed in the back of the bar with his boyfriend and a couple of friends, and when he wasn’t hiding in the back of the bar, he was repeatedly outside smoking with his boyfriend. After witnessing that, and knowing how much of a crowd-pleaser Cheer NY is at Porno Bingo, I decided to make it up to them, because they deserve better. So I made myself approachable, I didn’t go disappearing. In fact, I stayed in front of the bar most of the night.

There weren’t many people there when I arrived, so the energy wasn’t quite there, which had me worried at first. But as the more crowd and members of Cheer NY came in, the energy grew immensely. And having the athletic hunks and damsels of Cheer NY to look at being as high energy as I anticipated didn’t hurt in making that happen at all. So I was very glad I chose to appear that night.

I was worried as to how much of my clothes would come off depending on how much money we raise. But I thought back on my past solo appearances, and how time I wound up taking more off. My last solo appearance I only got my shirt off, but I was hoping this time around to go all the way and lose all my clothes. The deal Will and myself agreed upon then made with the crowd is that at $250 I would lose my shirt, at $400 I would lose my pants, and at $500 I would lose my underwear. I wore the overalls that I wore in “Oh Boy Escorts 2”, so losing my clothes would be quite easy. As I told Will Clark about them, “easy access”. I always wear those overalls when I’m going somewhere that I need to slip out of my clothes fast, like a go-go dancing gig, a porn shoot, or an event like this. I knew it would be long before losing the shirt because after the 1st round we had already raised $106, then another $100 by the second round, and people donating to get the total up to $250. So I did my striptease of opening the overalls then taking off the shirt I had on underneath. I opened up my belt buckle so that the overall would hang low enough to give patrons the incentive to give more so they can get a look at “what lies beneath”.

By the fourth round, the total was over $400. Although that was enough to make me drop trou, Will and Cheer NY egged the crowd to get up to $500 so that I can lose it all. Well, the hunks of Cheer NY also upped the ante, by offering to drop trou themselves while I lose all my clothes.

No argument from me, that’s for sure.
Especially considering that all these guys should be pornstars themselves because they are a picture of what American gay porn should be. A line-up of good-looking guys with fit bods coming in a rainbow of colors and ethnicities.

Well, with some doing, we did reach the $500 mark. So while I stripped standing on the piano stool, the guys were behind me dropping their pants. And while stripping, I made sure to turn around every once in a while to get a view from above of all the cute butts in their skivvies. Remember, they’re cheerleaders, so their bodies are nothing to scoff at unless you’re jealous.

Which makes me have to give a special thanks to one of the guys who got about as naked as me. In fact, after Porno Bingo wrapped, we wound up making out, and one of the other members briefly came in and made it a 3-way kiss. Now, there are times when someone making your 1-on-1 kiss a 3-way can piss you off.

This was DEFINITELY NOT one of those times. So my advice to him: If that happens again, next time - stay longer. Like from start to finish.

So once again THANKS to the patrons for making it a great night. THANKS to Cheer NY for being such great sports. THANKS to A.B. for the photos. THANKS to Manny for the drinks. And THANKS to Will Clark for the invite.You can soon see photos at WillClarkPresnts.com.

Come See Me @ PORNO BINGO-10/10/2007

For those of you in NY, I hope to see many of you come this Wednesday night at Will Clark's PORNO BINGO.

This is a very special one for me, because the DVD that is part of the prize is "69 Fuck Street", which is my 1st and only travel outside of the ethnic-themed porn genre to date. I have finally seen the finished product for myself, and I am quite proud of my work. I'm proud of most of my projects, but I always welcome change, and this one suit me well. In fact, this movie has a racial makeup that's more like my life off-camera.
So come on down meet me, and have a chance to win a copy of "69 Fuck Street", as well as get DVD Samplers from PRIVATE MAN.

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY,
by buying Bingo cards, you help to support the evening's beneficiary Cheer NY.

Drugs Wear At Associates, Too

After coming under some scrutiny for mentioning someone's drug use. I think I have to address this issue more fully. And in doing so, I will be admitting to my mistakes even more so than before.

First off, they say go with your 1st instinct. And my 1st instinct in responding to Rich's 1st comment to say that his claiming that I'm airing someone's private life in their drug use is fuckin' ludicrous. But instead I took a more peaceful approach.
Now after looking back at it. I see I was right the 1st time.

Rich's comment was FUCKIN' LUDICROUS.

I'm not insulting Rich. I'm just being honest, and I will most definitely explain why.

To Rich and those of you who agree with him to some degree:
(1))You need to read more carefully. I said that my feelings about a sexual partner's drug use didn't cross my mind much until after this incident. Therefore, it never crossed my mind to walk out at the time as it very well should have.
Also, I said before that I orginally was not going to write about that tryst at all. The reason the bar became mentioned in the first post about my dancing there was simply me doing some self-promotion. And once things did not work out as they should have, I decided to update my readers on the situation with the bar and the bartender, as their comments expressed interest in both. And being that a lesson about drugs could be learned by my botched tryst with the bartender, I decided to write it.
(2)You need to look beyond the surface of things. I ALREADY SAID that this was just an intended roll in the hay. And I compared it to a car accident for a reason. Because the fact is either way, be it the reality or the proposed scenario, his being with me did not lead to the intended outcome because of drugs. In the reality - a great sexaul encounter, in the proposed scenario - me reaching my destination safely. So my point is this time - it was only a botched roll in the hay, tomorrow - it could be that devastating car accident.

With all that being said, the reason I said Rich's comment was FUCKIN' LUDICROUS was because this incident happened while this guy was with me. And being that he was with me, it rightfully stirred an emotion within me. Therefore, I have EVERY RIGHT to vent his drug usage. If he does drugs when he is not around me, or I don't wind up seeing the effects of his drug use, THEN Rich would be right - I am to keep my mouth shut.

Now, in defense of the bartender, the next day after our inteneded tryst, he told me that he was taking steps to no longer do drugs, even the little bit that he was doing. When I told him that I had written the blog about our night together, I did not tell him that I mentioned his drug use, and how it put a cramp in our night together. I told him that I was extremely honest, and that it should keep him doing what he's doing, because he said he was sticking to his regimen of not doing any. For that I commend him, and if he was upset by my last entry, being that I was honest and have now explained how and why as much info about him surfaced as it did, I hope he will understand.
But since I know that what I wrote may have possibly made someone or some people take a look at themselves the way I did after this incident, I'm sorry, but I will make no apologies.