tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post5021765694051096212..comments2023-04-14T05:17:42.999-04:00Comments on L's X-Ray Vision: Responding To BeautifulBlog CommentsLeNair Xavierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-10779394029952939292008-08-13T17:50:00.000-04:002008-08-13T17:50:00.000-04:00Moog, I am by no means too angry about this as you...Moog, I am by no means too angry about this as you put it. If you knew more about my struggle with my sexuality, maybe you'd understand. Anyone who has had as great a struggle as me and came out to respect an individual owning his/her sexual orientation by them behaving in accordance with that orientation understands my upset.<BR/>I spent about 15 years of my life suicidal because of my not knowing my sexual identity, and looking for anything to give me a way to find out. Being an artist, I looked to movies, both mainstream and porn. Since porn has full-on sex, I feel it should has been some kind of guide, and it was somewhat. But it would not have been if the big thing at that time was hiring actors who claim to be "gay-for-pay". It would have only furthered my confusion.<BR/>As an artist, I feel one must take responsibility for whatever message their art send out. Be it a written worn, a painting, a dance movement, a part in a play, etc. And the same goes for porn. Hence the reason why I won't do barebacking movies. I don't want to send out the message that barebacking is OK, and using gay-for-pay actors sends out the message that being on the DL is OK when it most certainly is not. So if you find my concern with the message condecending, than that simply shows your lack of humanity.LeNair Xavierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-46542393752810609472008-08-12T14:46:00.000-04:002008-08-12T14:46:00.000-04:00I can watch a "gay for pay" model have sex with ot...I can watch a "gay for pay" model have sex with other men without being stupid enough to believe that this would likely happen with an actual straight guy. Your concern with the "message" this is sending is a bit condecending and obviously reflects you own issues and or biases towards guys who choose to do this to make money. But, it's your blog and you are certainly entitled to say whatever you want on it. I do see your point somewhat, but you seem a little too angry over it.mooghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13051431570648581094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-12097511391794192652008-08-07T07:06:00.000-04:002008-08-07T07:06:00.000-04:00Anonymous, never approach my blog being s.o.s. (st...Anonymous, never approach my blog being s.o.s. (stuck on stupid), because I will have to put you in your place about it.<BR/>No I did not achieve fame in the "legitimate" acting field, but that's not why I chose to do gay porn. I was actually trying to juggle both acting worlds, but it became too much, so I had to choose one. And I chsoe the one that was making the most progress at the time. But either way, I never sold out my sexuality for "legitimate" acting or porn.<BR/>As for you claiming to like masculine men, you can find some who are actually gay. DO NOT GIVE ME THAT BULLSHIT COP OUT EXCUSE that only the gay-for-pay guys provide that. Do you have to pay a gay-for-pay guy to do it in your private life? If so, then you're a lazy recruiting loser. My desire for masculine men on and off camera is provided by 100% proud gay and bisexual MEN. MEN because they have enough confidence and self-awareness to stand behind who they are.<BR/>And lastly, I mylsef have been through rough financial times, and I have yet to do anything outside my sexual identity in order to make ends meet. So again, lay off the cop out excuses. Thank you.LeNair Xavierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02611811854575645709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3324975298989504774.post-18133326806119551952008-08-07T05:54:00.000-04:002008-08-07T05:54:00.000-04:00So what do you think about gay guys making straigh...So what do you think about gay guys making straight films to further their careers, and supplement their income. Wasn't there a guy called Matt Ramsey in gay porn that did that? <BR/><BR/>What about the struggling guys out there in california trying to eat and pay the rent, and have to do something until their legitimate acting career takes off, and must use their bodies and suck dick, etc. to get through the month. <BR/><BR/>Did you achieve fame and fortune in the "legitimate" acting field? <BR/><BR/>What other differences are there between that and the porn world. <BR/><BR/>some of us like masculine men, and often the gay for pay actors provide that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com